Thursday, 16 June 2011
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Feelings of Fulfillment
I've always been a crazy and passionate individual full of life and just full of big thoughts in my head. But I had never known true happiness in a relationship. Sure, I was happy with myself when I was single but I was always missing that part of me that being in love offered. I had many adventures when I was single and it was in that time, I found out a lot about myself and the kinds of things I enjoyed. With me now being in such a fulfilling relationship, I'm beginning to see how mellow I've become (minus the whole bipolar aspect of me) and how actually happy I've been with my boyfriend.All the small things hardly matter anymore. It's like my mind has cleared and everything feels like cool sailing despite bumps and bruises. I've never been completely satisfied in any kind of relationship (besides with myself) so, I didn't believe I could find it with anyone... but I have.
I noticed that I've slowed down (I'm only 21 mind you but I feel much older than I am) and my passions aren't sas fiery as they once were. I'm still myself but down a few notches. I don't have that crazy energy or even the feelings of discontentment in me. I think I found happiness.
So have you ever felt like I have in any kind of relationship, romantic or otherwise?
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I feel fulfilled. My wife is everything I've ever wanted and feared never having. Being with her makes everything ok.
It's the way that I want to feel. A lot of people tell me to enjoy being single. I've tried, but I still miss that feeling being able to have that someone to talk to every night, that dinner you can cook for them and share with them, the feeling of holding hands or even just snuggling up on the couch watching a movie and eventually falling asleep together. That is what I miss.
The longest that I've been single after being in a relationship was a little over two years. As of right now, after my last relationship, I've been single for 7 months. Don't get me wrong. I think being single is great since there won't be someone waiting up for you and such, but there is also that void that you want to fill.
That's awesome, man. I had something like this when I was younger, but I stupidly let it go.
I hope to one day find it again with someone. It's not easy to find. My last relationship kinda brought me down and made me feel like a different person (not in a good way). I feel more content/like myself again now that I'm single. But I would def love to find someone that I can just be completely comfortable with, share myself with and feel completely accepted, etc. It's a great feeling.
My current relationship makes me feel more like myself than ever. My last one made me feel like I was never good enough no matter what I did for him.
What a wonderful feeling!
My relationship makes me feel happy and like myself.I love thinking of and working towards goals for both of us and having a life partner [especially when those partners actually work well together] is wonderful.
I find myself singing crazy songs, dancing around, using terms of endearment that I once thought were stupid... mhmmm love makes you do craaazyy things, but I like it:)
Not really. But good for you! :D
@laytexduckie@xanga - WOW! I'm in exactly the same boat as you (minus the time differences of being single).
I'm trying my best to appreciate being single and that sense of "freedom". After being in a what seems like suffocating relationship, I should enjoy the ability to breathe. Nevertheless, I think I've grown accustomed to just having someone. But I want to have what you(referring to the writer) had when you were single. Maybe with time I can develop that. I also think that is the reason why you are much more fulfilled in your current relationship because you've grown to appreciate the time on your own.