Tuesday, 07 June 2011
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Just When You Thought ALL Adult Videos Were Degrading and Similar
Since we are all getting comfortable with our collection or discussion of our sexual aid, I should probably say this: I don't mind some things. I don't even mind a little raunchy talk. But sometimes, I get a little bored of it and start imagining something romantic. I imagine looking into a woman's eyes, kissing their lips, baptizing every part of their bodies with your kisses from the bottom down. A little bit of foreplay, if not slight romance, before they get down to the sex. It doesn't have to be like making love, but the type of sex that makes it in general look as either beautiful or as pleasing as it is.After doing plenty of searching and getting my hands (and anything else) dirty, I found something that everyone thought was an oxymoron: romantic porn. Rather, adult films for true ladies and gentlemen.
Now, before you go on, I want you to know what the word romantic or romance means to me: romance is the ability to make something either mundane or simple look beautiful. It's the ability to make something either poetic or attractive out of everyday people, things and situations.
I wasn't expecting to find anything outside of what you'll find on Showtime or HBO, but wouldn't you know it? There are plenty of sexual vids that look hot, arousing and sexy with plenty of subtlety. Not that I don't like it, but sometimes, you want something that takes its time.
One site I found was called Romantic Couples for Her, where the site is, more or less, focused on a man's will to please the woman. On the opening page, a man kissed a woman's wrist, kissed her neck and eventually got to the sex. There is also x-art, where all the sex that happens in such websites is almost like an actual movie scene. Anything slightly raunchy going on is a lot like artistic pornography.
But my favorite just happens to be Amour Deluxe or PornRomance. One has couples having sex as if they were actual couples, and the other has a tagline saying that it's "true gentlemen's porn." Basically, the idea of a storyline is the same, but the sexuality is delivered with as much vigor as it does sophistication, I believe. So, if you are looking for something to see with your guy, you have examples.
So, it just goes to show you, people. Just when you think something doesn't exist, all you have to do is search real hard, and you'll find whatever you want.
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[insert facepalm here]
They do have toned down porn. It's called "Softcore"
@omgroxie@xanga - Softcore would simply be like volume 1, 2, or 3, depending on the level of aggression and obnoxiousness of whatever that shows this, compared to what I find these days.
yup, there are some hot implied sex scenes in movies. anticipating, teasing the senses, and letting our own imagination do some of the work is more exciting to me than graphic porn. porn gets tedious after a while despite there being various fetishes, positions, etc. there's this half white/half korean actor/model that I can stare at all day, and he isn't even in porn or anything that sexual. for example, there's this adorable vid of him at his bday party and he's just sitting there looking cute, and I was giggling and staring at him like a crazed fangirl as he was awkwardly just sitting there
what I was saying is that I prefer that butterflies in my stomach swooning feeling than the lustful feelings, which is hot, but sometimes, the more naive scenes also make my heart aflutter
he's dancing with a girl in another movie clip like a cinderella movie scene
*sigh* lol
there's porn for everyone.
i work at a porn warehouse. trust me. FOR EVERY-ONE.
I don't want to watch romantic porn. I want to go straight to the hard f*ucking. If I wanna see romance, I'd go get romanced. Lol. But I get what you are saying. There is something out there for everyone in the universe of porn. That's good.
I wouldn't call any of that porn. Just erotica. I like being romanced but it does nothing for me to watch it. It's more emotional. Why would I want to watch other people emotionally feeding off of each other when I can do that myself? Porn is more physical and detached which makes it much easier to just get off to. It's there as a temporary release. The romantic stuff is something you want to actually experience.
i'm totally checking this out
x-art is amazing.
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Not that I know or anything.
Don't you have to register for all of these?
I'd be interested in checking something like this out, and watching it with my boyfriend, but I like fast and easy porn (no pun intended, haha) - none of that registration crap, and I'm certainly not willing to pay for it!
But yeah, to the point of the post, I love the dirty stuff, but this looks appealing as well. :)
...isn't your last statement just Rule 34 of the internets?
@Insomnia_Pickles_XtraTomato@xanga - A porn warehouse? Oh man, I envy you.
Indeed. The repetitive nature of traditional porn leaves something major to be desired. I've always wanted to watch a movie about romance where the actors do have graphic, romantic sex. Not only is it more realistic to the nature of sex between partners but it'd be damned sexy.
@xx_kaleidoscopic@xanga - I don't think you quite have to for PornRomance. The previews are pretty quick and welll-executed.
@Katja88@xanga - It is. But since people want to act like the impossible doesn't exist, I have to be one of the many to investigate, especially since as much as I like hardcore, fast, porn, I have been more turned on by a more romantic (or simply erotic) picture. that way it isn't so quick, and none of it seems the least bit generic, i guess. So luckily, I did some investigating on romantic porn, because I wanted to know if that existed.
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - It's certainly good to know it's out there. I'm not one for watching adult movies, but if I ever decide to, that'd be my kind of thing.
Of course, this also reinforces my thought that romance novels/movies are just dressed-up porn for women (with a few exceptions).
@Katja88@xanga - Well, people sure go to great lengths to make more visual representations of any book you pick up nowadays. Heh! It happens. If people could be able to create websites featuring nothing but erotic soundbites, we can do anything with technology nowadays.
am i crazy that i don't get off on anything but gonzo now?maybe i am
google prune brothers esmeralda. porn at its finest=) you'll thank me@Insomnia_Pickles_XtraTomato@xanga - lol how did you get that job, if you don't mind me asking?
erotica does a lot with what seems to be "sensual/romatic" foreplay. how do I get my bf to be more vocal in general? damn, he's so quiet, I swear, i do all the talking. haha Porn just makes him more quiet. he just seems to be checking my reactions, which is usually "how the heck does she... uuuuh, really? omg... but won't it really?"
btw, sometimes READING stimulates just as well.
I love softcore :)