Tuesday, 07 June 2011
Since we are all getting comfortable with our collection or discussion of our sexual aid, I should probably say this: I don't mind some things. I don't even mind a little raunchy talk. But sometimes, I get a little bored of it and start imagining something romantic. I imagine looking into a woman's eyes, kissing their lips, baptizing every part of their bodies with your kisses from the bottom down. A little bit of foreplay, if not slight romance, before they get down to the sex. It doesn't have to be like making love, but the type of sex that makes it in general look as either beautiful or as pleasing as it is.
After doing plenty of searching and getting my hands (and anything else) dirty, I found something that everyone thought was an oxymoron: romantic porn. Rather, adult films for true ladies and gentlemen.
Now, before you go on, I want you to know what the word romantic or romance means to me: romance is the ability to make something either mundane or simple look beautiful. It's the ability to make something either poetic or attractive out of everyday people, things and situations.
I wasn't expecting to find anything outside of what you'll find on Showtime or HBO, but wouldn't you know it? There are plenty of sexual vids that look hot, arousing and sexy with plenty of subtlety. Not that I don't like it, but sometimes, you want something that takes its time.
One site I found was called Romantic Couples for Her, where the site is, more or less, focused on a man's will to please the woman. On the opening page, a man kissed a woman's wrist, kissed her neck and eventually got to the sex. There is also x-art, where all the sex that happens in such websites is almost like an actual movie scene. Anything slightly raunchy going on is a lot like artistic pornography.
But my favorite just happens to be Amour Deluxe or PornRomance. One has couples having sex as if they were actual couples, and the other has a tagline saying that it's "true gentlemen's porn." Basically, the idea of a storyline is the same, but the sexuality is delivered with as much vigor as it does sophistication, I believe. So, if you are looking for something to see with your guy, you have examples.
So, it just goes to show you, people. Just when you think something doesn't exist, all you have to do is search real hard, and you'll find whatever you want.