I don't see any particular problem with it. However, if he's more than two years older than you and your mom catches him at it, she can get him arrested.

I wrote a comment and it didn't post. 

So you had a boy friend since you were 10. You're talking about laying naked in bed with your boyfriend in public at the age of 14. You've been in a cohabitation relationship from the age of 12.

Not only did you have a boyfriend before you passed puberty, but your boyfriend couldn't even get hard when he moved in with you.

There is a problem with it- The fact your mother hasnt said anything about it in the past, actually means she's enabling it.  I was once young myself, and its like calling the kettle black, but now that I have two young girls of my own, I would NO WAY IN HELL allow anything like that to happen. It's cool that your mother has taken the kid into the family, but where is the line drawn? You are both teenagers, Im sure sex will come eventually. You're both to young to be "promised". Live a little bit. 

You've been dating for three years? So, since you were 11. What is 'dating' when you're 11 anyway? This is weird, and you obviously think it is too to some extent, or you wouldn't be bothering to ask about it.

Wtf? Your mom sounds really irresponsible. I'm 18 and my boyfriend isn't allowed up in my room or sleep over for that matter. He's 22 and he basically has the same rules [except I can go in his room with the door open]. There would also be a riot from both of our families if we decided to move together before we got married.

@AlluringAddiction@xanga - totally agree.

if you have to ask questions then you're probably asking for validation. What do you think, if you don't care, then why ask?!

Your mom probably cares as a friend, my guess is that she is a young single parent. Since you didn't say anything about your dad, which would have completely disagreed with this! lmao Your mom is probably more a friend then a mom/parent. If thats the case its bad...if she has expressed some "eh...not so sure about this." but whatever, my opinion doesn't count for much. Does it?! ;)

you guys are JUST making out. its not like your making love. I don't know. I think its kind of silly. But it is your choose, not mine. If you think its acceptable to sleep with your boyfriend naked/in underwear, and curl up on his bed in your underwear then fine.  Just think of all thinks that can happen if you guys do it. Like getting pregnant (which you don't want) or you mom coming home way day, and seeing you guys are doing more then just laying around in underwear. Because mattering on his age he can/probably will be thrown in jail. .___.; 

No glove, no love.

@AsylumBlue - I'm not saying that because it's (not) shocking, I'm saying it because it's really awful writing, and seems like a trite topic to talk about. They're just stating it, not asking a question or for advice, just putting it out there. I guess it would make sense that these things are all coming from a 14-year-old though.

SMH youth generations.

You're 14. You're 14. You shouldn't be doing that - you're too young & if you were my sister I'd kill you. I hope for your sake your boyfriend is your age, because otherwise....
(Also, STD's, HPV, & teenage motherhood aren't exactly the fun tv makes them seem.)
Oh, & sorry to be debby downer, but like I said - you're 14. You may be 'promised' to each other but the chances of you staying together is slim to none. Just saying.
This post is ridiculous.

i'm uncomfortable.