Monday, 16 May 2011
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Dating-Whiplash
This is the first blog I write while the dating disappointment is occurring.I am sitting, waiting for a guy to pick me up to go grab a quick ice cream. I won’t mention the fact that I’ve already been waiting for over an hour for him to pick up, but let me just say that I’ve been waiting over an hour for him to pick me up!!
But in all seriousness, at first our plans were to visit the art walk in South Beach. It sounded romantic and relaxing. I love the idea.
As the time neared, he asked me if I would like to join in on a double date for sushi. I thought it was fine. I was worried I wouldn’t get to know him as well as I could if we were going on a one-on-one date but I agreed anyway.
Shortly after, he tells me his friend doesn’t want to go eat sushi anymore with the other chick and if I wanted to grab some sushi just us two. Great!
But wait, it doesn’t end there! While his changing plans again he is changing them again. I had never seen anything like it. He said yeah, we could do that or just go and get a quick dessert at the local creamery.
At this point, my neck hurts from this dating-whiplash that I feel like calling it a night going to bed.
But again, I talk myself into going and agree.
While I sit here, waiting for him to pick me up I start the usual girlie-though processes.
I bet he’s probably just trying to get rid of me. I bet he’s going drinking afterwards with his buddies and didn’t want to waste much time with me.
It’s exhausting. Now I need a giant Vanilla Sundae to ease the nerves. I’ll let you guys know how it went when I get back…
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Comments (7)
If the guy is making you wait so much and keeps changing plans like that, then cancel on him. If he really wants to spend time with you, he'll put forth more effort. If not, then on to the next guy for you.
You should bail. Don't be so available.
Dude, you seem to have really bad luck with guys. I guess you should feel thankful though that this guy didn't decide to take you to a certain crowded sports pub to play video games and then skip out on the bill.
a guy, who is 1 hour late
I wouldn't date fashionably late male divas
That's...sad. But at least you get asked out on dates (says the girl who never gets asked out)!
I see nothing wrong with changing plans. However, this is utterly ridiculous. If he is going to constantly be late and constantly wanting to change the plans, don't bother. If he were really interested, he'd have made more of an effort to show up ON TIME and this changing plans bullshit would be minimal of one or two.
He sounds like a complete tool. If a guy was over an hour late for our date, I would cancel. And he'd have to do some serious groveling to even get a second date.
I'm not a bitch, but I would never change plans 3 times and then stand someone up / make them wait for me to show up whenever I damn well pleased, either.