Friday, 13 May 2011
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Guys Prefer Mean Girls?
I started chatting with a guy online through a dating site. We exchanged numbers quickly and set up a date. On the night of the date he stood me up an hour before we were supposed to meet.Although I was angry with him, I forgot about him and went out with friends and had a great time. The next day he apologized profusely and said he had a good reason, but he couldn't tell me because it was embarrassing. I told him I understood, no big deal, but I was no longer interested in meeting up with him. He was persistent over the next few days and kept trying to get me to set up another date.
It has been weeks now and he will not quit texting me. It seems that the meaner I am to him, the more intrigued he is. He told me he likes my assertive attitude. So, I then switched to being kind to him and letting him know that I am simply not interested. I am not here to ask for advice on how to get him to quit texting me. I know that if I just quit responding, he would eventually leave me alone.
Why are some guys attracted to bitchy girls?
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Same reason girls are attracted to assholes.
They want to be dominated.
Men like HOT girls, many whom happen to be mean. I think like women though, they also find women more attractive when they play hard to get, as if winning said women is some tough obstacle they are trying to overcome. The problem is most guys wuss out and act desperate when women do this.
I've noticed they want that type of girl when it comes to just fucking or casually dating but when it gets serious they prefer someone more levelheaded and sweet but confident.
They like the chase
I don't know if bitchiness is a characteristic most guys look for in a girl, but if she's attractive enough guys will invest some time.
@lilblucherrygrl@xanga - I concur, very astute comment.
Lol, if guys are attracted to mean girls, then I'm screwed. I can't be mean to save my life, I kind of hate that about myself.
Call your cell provider and have them block his cell number. Simple.
you'd be hard-pressed to find someone more disdainful of relationships than i am, and even i could see myself totally falling for a girl who's really super sweet. it's happened once before (as much as i hate to admit it).
while there are many guys who like bitchy girls (probably because of the whole domination thing), i think most don't fall in that category.
@endlezzthinking@xanga - sad but true. people are too looks-oriented.
@HollowTendencies@xanga - don't be a bitch, the world has enough negative energy as it is :)
I don't think it is the fact that the girl is mean, but that she is just confident and honest.
sometimes there is nothing more attractive than someone who doesn't want you. On the flipside, acting overly interested is romantic suicide.
It might not be so much how you're acting, but that he can't have you. People want what they can't have.
@testyman666@xanga - I agree
@rarareplica@xanga - confidence is sexy but lack of interest turns at least me off, I don't like being rejected or disrespected. Hinting interest in me turns me on, but not being pushy or stalking, so in a way I agree with you and in a way I don't. :)
I cant be mean.. When I am I feel waay too guilty and appologise..... lol
@HollowTendencies@xanga - She wasn't being mean, she was being assertive and through her actions was letting the guy know what she will and will not tolerate. As women, it's important to know your worth and know that someone standing you up is NEVER okay because it shows a lack of respect for you and for your time. You can be sweet as pie but still be assertive and let guys know by your actions what you won't tolerate. Always remember, men respond better to action...
Hahaha, it's like how girls are attracted to jerks?
I don't like bitches.
I don't like girls who play hard-to-get.
Dumbasses like those girls.
BOYS like mean GIRLS, MEN like LADIES. Plain and simple. :)
in my experiences, the guys will often tolerate the attitude if he likes me more than I like him. I'm a sweet person, but sometimes I can be mean to give the guy an obvious sign that I'm not into him, and even if I tell him that I don't like him, so I might start talking about other guys right in front of him, he might see that as a bigger challenge competition
I'm very nice to guys that I like though. I tend to spoil them
some guys say that they don't like games, but playing hard to get has caused some guys to like me so much that they said that they wanted to marry me
some have told me that hot girls, who act psycho, are probably better in bed, but I wasn't surprised because the guys that I used to like, who were the male equivalent to the hot psycho female, were also very sexual. it still depends though. but usually they aren't only psycho in bed but mentally psycho
lol I mean these guys had more issues than me, but they didn't tell me, just had a short temper and used petty things to lash out at me just to unleash their anger. I don't tolerate verbal abuse so I left him and he still wants me, because he realizes how nice I was to him
@Escargotpudding@xanga - Exactly. A mystery..lol
I know a lot of 'em. The reason why some men like bitchy women's because they're whimps :D
@testyman666@xanga - I love this answer..
I was a bitch to this guy I liked because he was kind of jerky and coming on strong at first. He kept wanting to set things straight.
Now that I think about it.... maybe he just sees you as a girl he could totally be with and is his type.
Or no other girl will date him.
Men like women with attitude. Sassyness. It doesn't have to be mean.
@PunkRockCowboy@xanga - 'Sassyness' is retarded and often childish. Definitely don't dig that as a man.
Somewhat off-topic -- "I told him I understood, no big deal, but I was no longer interested in meeting up with him," as OP said in article..
It was a big enough deal to no longer be interested.. so you lied to him?