Thursday, 12 May 2011
Is it irrational for me to want my boyfriend of 4 years to tell me where he is at all times? I don't care if he has lunch with coworkers or has that same particular routine throughout the week, but is it irrational to expect him to tell me every time he does? He will go work and visit different clients, sometimes around lunch time. He'll call on his way and then 3 hours later say he's headed back to office. I've found out he stops with friends to eat.
The fact that he does this doesn't bother me. What bothers me is I have to ask, "Ah, so did you get lunch?" etc but he won't willingly tell me if he did, so I don't understand what the big secret is. Some people say it's ridiculous to know every move, others think: Why can't he simply say, "Hey, just had lunch, headed back." Other times during the week, maybe once a month, he'll say he grabbed a sandwich at a fast food place when really, he went to a restaurant and had dinner.