Ever since I met him in April, this guy, let's call him D, began to call me non-stop. I met him outside of school where he gave me one of his cd's (he's a musician) that also had his number on it. I texted him the next day saying that I liked it and that's when he just started calling me. He would call me and just ramble on so much that at times when I saw him calling I would just ignore it. It made me wonder, "Who is this guy and why is he calling me so much?"
Soon I started inviting him to places to hang out with my friends and then he began to do the same. He kissed me on the cheek twice in public which really made me wonder about him, if it was a "more than friends" action or just friends. One night I took him to a concert and as I dropped him off, he kissed me on the cheek goodnight. I had a GREAT time with him that night but I hadn't heard from him since then and decided to try to forget him... until last Friday. He texted me "Where are you at?" and then he called. He started going on about how he misses me and wants to see me soon.
I know this guy doesn't have a job right now and is living at his aunt's house. He's 22 and still hasn't finished community college in his hometown and is going to move back there for the fall semester anyway. It was just strange how he texted and called me out of the blue one night when he hadn't called me in weeks (compared to when he would call every other day and talk for a while). I wasn't sure what to make of it but when I explained it to my friend she said one of two things: either he's messing with my head or I'm his fall-back-girl. Either way, I should ignore him, she advised.
I'm so tempted to reach out to him again, yet at the same time, I know she's right. Why do guys do this? You have a amazing night with them, then they forget about you, call you out of nowhere and say they miss you? Its just strange. I live in the same neighborhood as this guy. If he really wanted to see me I think he would have taken initiative by now.
It just blows my self-esteem a little. What do ya'll think?