Saturday, 07 May 2011
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What's the Deal with Men Who Like BBW's?

Lend my your ears... or in this case... eyes. What is the deal with men liking big women? Most likely, when it comes to online profiles, I would check the box asking for my body type as "more to love." Are there men out there that really like BBW (big beautiful women)? I hear about men that like larger women, all the time. Personally, I have never come across one of these men. I am not obese, but I am tall and overweight. I don't even know if I would like it if a man liked my thick thighs or fat ass. My weight is something I have struggled with my whole life, and in the process, I hate it say it, but I have kind of learned to hate my body.Women - Do y'all know of men that love large women?
Men - Do you know why guys love BBW? or Do you like BBW?I can understand being attracted to someone who is overweight, but I am not quite sure I understand men that PREFER overweight women....
What's the deal?
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Hm, I don't know why some guys prefer BBW. I've been attracted to girls who are overweight, but that might be because I myself am overweight. When it comes down to it, I'm just attracted to girls in general. No specific preference. haha
Believe me, they exist. People just don't openly talk about it because it's not the "preferred turn-on". Once you go online and look these things up you end up realizing how common certain fetishes and turn ons are.
i can honestly say that i don't know ANY guys who, as a rule, prefer bigger women. i know that some of my guy friends would date bigger girls, but they definitely prefer skinnier ones.
Got a few friends who are webcam chat hosts for a living...
There are entire sites that have only BBW... and they make a good living... so there must be enough men who like that out there... but I personally don't know any.
I married my best friend 10 years ago. Not because of the size/shape of her body, but because of her mind and her heart and her love.
I love my wife, my BBW.
I know of a guy who likes BBW. It's called a fetish. just like those who like feet, BDSM, etc.
I know men who are attracted to one specific type and some that are attracted to all.
I know I'm not physically attracted to smaller framed men... I don't mind fit and muscular, I just really mean small framed men who can fit in my tank top. lol.
I do however know a guy who doesn't just like thick curvey girls... I mean he will look at any girl who is pretty regardless of their size and say if they are beautiful that they are. How ever he prefers big women. Not just chunky but like slightly on the unhealthy side.
He says he likes the softness.
i dont restrict myself to one body type. it is the person and if i am attracted to her, it is to her. what ever the total person is.
There are guys at all ends of the spectrum. I had a lover that preferred larger women and called things off after I lost 20 pounds. That really didn't bother me, because we were just lovers. I just found it interesting that he is one of the fittest people I know, with well-toned muscles everywhere but what turns him on are heavier women.
If anyone knows of a guy like this send him my way, mmkay? lol
On the flipside, I actually tend to be more attracted to guys who are a bit heavier than normal. Maybe I just like guys with a similar build to myself. I dunno. But I figure if I feel that way towards guys, there's gotta be a few good guys out there who feel the same way towards us!
Why do some women like chiseled abs on a man? Why do some men like skinny girls? There's no one collective answer. Everyone has their own reasons for liking what they like. Some people don't even know why they like what they like, they just know that they like it.
As for me, I don't know a man who likes BBWs, but I also don't ask. So, maybe I know a man who does and I am unaware of it. Everyone has their "type," whatever it may be.
My boyfriend is into BBW. I was a size 18 when we started dating, now I'm a 22 and he is always complementing my figure. He really loves all my curves.
Personally it grosses me out to hear him talk about how much he loves my "rolls" but it's what turns him on the most.First time I heard this. I definitely prefer taller women especially since I'm a taller guy (plus I think they're more attractive), but if other guys are attracted to "big" women then all I can say is they can have them. I'm not attracted to BBWs, not only because they're "big" but also because a lot of them are loud and obnoxious.
Kind of a weird question. I agree with @ichifangirl@xanga.
I haven't met any guys who like BBW..(I am a bbw)....but there are online dating sites that are catered toward BBWs so that would be a place to find a guy who likes bbw
my husband says sex feels better when a woman is overweight. maybe that "more cushion for the pushin'" thing is true...haha. i'm overweight so i'll reap the benefits. i am very overweight and i never came across anyone who was into me specifically for my weight...but i have a friend who is morbidly obese (over 350 lbs) and she said men would find her online on a regular dating website (like match.com, i think) and want to see naked pics of her and want to see pics of her feet... some other fetishy thing is men who are into fat women with big feet...weird! but oh well... everyone has a specific taste i guess.
Everyone has their own preference. You just gotta find the one (or two or several) that is into you.
I don't personally know of men, who prefer bbw. they mostly love the curvy women with toned yet still bootylicious bodies usually seen in rap music videos. I don't blame them because in outkast's "I like the way you move" video, those women are hottttt, especially the latina looking one, even hotter than kim k.
I think it is just a preference. I'm mostly attracted to toned bodies, either thin and toned or medium built muscular toned, not the meathead wrestler types though, but the rock looks hot, so he is an exception and he is funny in movies, so I'm biased. I prefer toned bodies because it took lots of self discipline to develop a chisled body, so I think they'll have more stamina in bed
than an out of shape person, just saying.
I'm slender but my honey is quite fond of my ass... I'd never heard of the phrase "DAT ASS!!!" before I met him, but there you go lol
We have that dynamic where I'll joke with him and say "does my ass look fat in these jeans?" and he'll say yes, knowing I know that's a good thing :p
I don't know any. But the girl in that picture is freaking beautiful!
@ohforrealson@xanga - your man is black isn't he? Not saying that to be stereotypical but I usually don't hear a white guy or asian say something like that (though there ARE exceptions).
I can't quite tell you why, but I'll admit to being one the girls likely to get turned on equally by big women as I do the average girl. To me, it's all about whether you can even handle the big girl. The jiggle, the huggable factor, the extra cushioning in all the right places...it's surely a turn-on. It's easy to say you get turned on by somebody, but you better be at the ready in some form for when the turn on approaches you. I think some are worried about certain personal factors that arise, when dating big girls: either cock size, being able to handle her during all positions (don't act like people don't think about sex when dating)...date the girls you can handle.
I don't know. But I'm pretty much guilty of having a thing for big women. However, just because I say that I like them does not mean those are the only girls I will date. That is probably why you may not often see me as often with them.
The girl in the pic has a really pretty face.
More cushion for the pushin'.
lol @ chubby-chasers.
More cushion for the pushin...also more things to hold on to. good to lock on and go crazy.