Wednesday, 20 April 2011
At a diner one day, my boyfriend and I bump into a mutual... acquaintance? that we both previously met at some party my coworker threw. No words were exchanged, all we did was wave hi to her from a distance as she walked to her table with her friends. After eating my meal, I got up to go to the bathroom. As I came out, I noticed someone sitting in my seat and realized it was that girl sitting in my seat, leaning forward, talking to my boyfriend.
As I'm getting closer to the table, she looks at me, gets up and then walks away without saying anything. I don't know about you guys, but I felt like that was very shady of her. I asked my bf what she wanted and he told me she was just saying what's up.I got a weird vibe from her and also told him that what she did kind of threw me off. He agreed that it wasn't cool of her and told me that he would be mad if a guy came up and did that to me.
So, my boyfriend and I got into a fight about something completely irrelevant to the story above. We were just fighting a lot and it got to the point where we decided to take a break from each other. The break took two weeks. For two weeks, we called each other every single day attempting to work it out, but we would just end up fighting every time. FINALLY, after work this past weekend, he calls me and tells me he's sorry and that he wants to be with me and not go on any longer in our relationship without each other.
I felt the same say, so we both agreed to go home from work, take a shower, and then meet up. I came home and ended up falling asleep for 1.5 hrs. I wake up to no missed calls or texts, so I called him to see what he was up to. I found out that he was already at a bar (one i used to work at) with his cousin mark, waiting for his other cousin andy starting at 7:00pm. He invited me to come, but i declined because he hasn't seen andy in over 2 years and I didn't feel it was my place to hang with the guys that night. I wanted him to be able to do his guy thing.
I found out from my ex coworker (Susie) the next day that he was hanging out with his cousin Mark and that girl from the party til 2:30am. Susie is good friends with the girl, but she is also good friends with me and told her that he was still with me. The girl didn't care and sat with them all night.... the girl also told Susie that she thought my boyfriend was cute and that he was actually the one who invited her out.
I'm mad at him for doing this. I'm mad because he forgot to call me while he was chilling with her. I didn't even know he had her number. I'm mad because WE were supposed to meet up. I'm mad because he didn't even think to invite me out once he found out that Andy wasn't going to show up.
I'm mad because I found out they all got wasted together. Even though he didn't cheat on me or anything like it, I still feel betrayed and angry about it because he knew how I felt about her. Out of all the people he could've called or hung out with, why her? He sincerely apologized for it, but I still kind of feel angry about it. It made me feel very insecure about our relationship..
Has anybody else ever felt this way? What would you do if you were in this situation?