Friday, 08 April 2011
Most women have a time in their life when they continuously date or have a strong attraction to a 'bad boy'. First, let me discuss in my own words what type of guy would fit my interpretation of a 'bad boy'.
BAD BOY: a boy or man who basically does what he wants when he wants. Typically found to start fights, say insulting things to anyone about anything, and sweet talk women.
I would say that a lot of women would agree with my definition of what a 'bad boy' is. Here's Urban Dictionary's definition:
BAD BOY: A young man who has many characteristics of a naughty boy: he's independent and willful; he does what he wants when he wants; he doesn't follow trends, they follow him; he often looks scruffy, but hip; he's not looking for trouble, but there's a sense of danger about him. For these reasons and more, he's irresistible to women. He's a heart breaker five o'clock shadow.
For me, after I read this I thought to myself 'HOT DAMN'. I bet a lot of women did the same exact thing as I did and here's the reason why:
Most women want a man who takes control, is independent, funny and/or sarcastic, and last but not least dangerous (in a sexy way of course). When we think of an idealistic boyfriend or husband we know that we should take mommy and daddy's advice; Find a nice boy with good grades and a high paying job so that you can be served like the princess you are. Of course every girl would LOVE to be treated like a princess, but deep down that's not what our body is telling us it wants.
I'm pretty sure everybody knows what I'm talking about; sex. For some reason women are more likely to be attracted to a man who looks like they know what they'd be doing if you caught them in the bedroom. This is the reason why us women love going after 'bad boys'. We know what we want, but our body is telling us differently so we go for the guy who looks like he could make your sexual fantasies come true.
Although some women truly do want a man who's bad, some do not, I being one of them. Breaking of the 'bad boy habit' is just like saying no to sugar; It's so hard to do! Eventually, with the right mind set you'll overcome it, but you'll always be wondering what would've happened if you were with a guy like that.
So what do you think? Do you agree? If not, why do you think women love 'bad boys'?