Sunday, 03 April 2011
Two of my friends and I decided to head out to an art show last Friday night and maybe hit up a new club I heard about. I brought a large bottle of wine that was more then half empty before we left the house. We were determined to have a girl's night out, nothing fancy, get a little buzzed and just chill.
After looking at the art inside and walking around we ventured to the patio. I noticed some people with bicycles and one shorter blonde guy was wearing a red cape. I immediately ran up to him and complimented him on it. I honestly thought it was such a cute thing for him to wear since he was so short, and it really showed his funny personality.
He even mentioned how he sewed it himself which impressed me. After talking for a few moments he invited my friends and I to a party that was happening at his friend's house that night. "Would you and your friends be down?"
"Oh, OF course!"
We headed over to their friend's place, Justin, where all his biker friends were... and a lot of beer pong. After playing a round of beer pong (of course I lost) and chugging one too many a beer I went upstairs to find the bathroom. I bumped into Justin on the stairs and also his other friend, Law.
I don't even think this hookup would have actually taken place if we did not find each other in the stairway. Somehow we made our way into one of the bedrooms where a random movie was playing and we began making out. This did eventually lead to him touching me and he turned out to be a damn good human vibrator, if I must say so myself. However, there were things he did that really turned me off.
He started talking dirty to me, saying things like, "You're so wet," and each time he said it I literally cringed. I mean, it does not leave the most appealing visual in my mind and it just didn't sit right with me. Later he began to pull my hair (why?) and slap the back of my thigh. I'm not some kind of child that you have to spank, so please keep your hands to yourself.
I'm not sure what kind of girl he was with prior, but if she liked all of these attributes and told him to do it I think she made a mistake. Who likes it when a guy does this to them in bed? Why?
My friend explained to me how hookups are lustful and meaningless. The good sex she had came from love and devotion that the person has through a relationship. I totally agree with that statement. I was drunk during this act but I was 100% awake and aware about what was taking place. I kind of took the leadership role, telling him what do to, like "Get on the floor" or "move over here" and he actually did it.
The night ended at Denny's where his friends went for some food. After kissing me goodbye he asked what my name was again. "It dosn't matter. This is a one-time deal," I said. I set the law on Law, haha. Overall, kind of bad in bed but makes a wonderful human vibrator.
Anyone else ever had a drunk hookup or a bad experience during one?