Thursday, 31 March 2011
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The ONE Reason a Lot of You are Single
You hear it everywhere. "I'm single because..."But let's be honest, most of you are lazy as shit. Ya'll have some cockamamie thought that "love" is supposed to "find you" and if you don't believe that, there is ALWAYS some bitch that says, "I'm in love with God FIRST!" Christian minds just blaring "You goin' to HELL!"
What happens when you're with someone and one of you moves away? Do you stay together? Some of you would say "yes" and TRY to work though it. Let me expand on that question. What if he didn't come back, what would you do then? And some of you would say, "It wouldn't work," "On to the next one," sounding like some ghetto bitch said it.
Even if he DID come back, do you go based on the HOPE he will? NOPE, you left him alone because he wasn't there WITH you. Same here with "God." He apparently created everything right? He may be the BEST man you've ever known but HE'S NOT HERE! How do you keep a relationship with someone that isn't here?
Back to the "real life" situation.
You end things with a person that you may have actually had physical contact with if they didn't happen to move away, but GOD! It's a different story because it's "God" right? With this being said, if he does come back, I'd love to see it so I could just shut the fuck up. But until that time comes, I'm speaking my mind.
Taking the spiritual factor away, if a person that you have feelings for ends up moving away from you, what are you supposed to do? You're not supposed to just end it *click* just like that. You're supposed to do whatever it takes to make it work. Otherwise, that relationship/person wasn't as important as you all say....
And I doubt lightning will strike me down, because he "gave" me the mind to think whatever the fuck I want. The point of this post, stop being a lazy bitch. If you care about someone enough, do what it takes to see him and vise versa. I see too many posts on this site bitching about being single.
It's because you're lazy bitch!
P.S. This goes for guys too...
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Ok....i'm not quite sure what this was about....BUT I do kind of maybeagree with one sentence you said. "I see too many posts on this site bitching about being single." ...Yeah that gets on my nerves too. I can't stand people who constantly complain about "not having a bf/gf". I don't think lazyness has anything to do with it, though.
maybe just me but sounds like you're talking to ONE person...
lol, this made me laugh. :]
But I'm single because I don't really want a relationship. :B
Then again, I'm not part of the group of people complaining about being single.. xD
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ALSO - i think if people are writing blogs like, "why am i single?" on a dating advice site .....................that's why you're single.
I'm single because I realized that being single is better than dating a guy I don't respect. i.e., my first college relationship was with a guy who couldn't spell the word "tomorrow." (He spelled it "tomarrow." Even after my frequent and pointed use of the correct spelling in facebook IM). You can imagine what the rest of the experience was like.
Before we dated, I lamented my singleness. Now I don't complain a bit.
this may hold true but only for relationships when one person has to leave, physically. "trying" or "working at it" doesn't work for all relationships. such as a person leaving emotionally...you can't force someone to love you, no matter how hard you try. this post assumes that both people have strong mutual feelings that are unquestionable, only to be challenged by distance.
you can't really compare it to your relationship to God, if you do have one. you can't have a same sort of relationship with a significant other as you would with God. you're not spiritually in love with your partner, you're compassionately in love but using that relationship to help support both of your relationship with God. i'm not a great Christian, but that's what i'd take it to be if i were living a true Christian life. but the same holds true if you're not spiritual. you don't love a partner spiritually, at least i don't think you would. these are relationships in real life that are needed for well-being, and speaking as a Christian I would think it's because God cannot be a physical and emotional support, he knows that we need each other for that. God is there for spirituality. that in turn holds true for some people who don't need spirituality in their life, therefore don't subscribe to a faith or whatnot, it is not necessary, but the physical and emotional need is always there, which is why we all want someone to be there for us.
Ok, first of all, why was this posted?
Second, what spiritual factor? What does God have to do with laziness and long distance relationships?
Err...
lol.
Yea I feel like this post was more of a lament against God. Jeez find another site to spew your hatred against religion. As for being single, what does laziness have to do with it? I think you were thinking more along the lines of how to stay in a relationship because honestly when you're single, can you really say you didn't get with that girl because you're lazy? Come on.
This post definitely made me laugh
I was playing every time he said the word bitch- lets take a shot game!
just rant your bitterness in your own blog.
this post sucks more than the rectum of someone with diarrhea.
@rabbitsarecool14@xanga - Well said.
finally! somebody who speaks on da real
datingish's picture to represent this post is quite harsh because she can't fit into the car to drive to see her boifrann.
@northernskylights@xanga - Pretty much. Learn to write with some style mate. Pretty shitty rant as well. You went off on a massive tangent. It was a trainwreck, pure and simple...
the amount of GOD in this post distracts me from the actual point :\
This post is related to God because.....?
Sounds like you had issues with a Christian ex.Man up and deal with it bro.
im really confused to what this blog was all about...it sounded like a pointless rant. you went off on a tangent. wtf?
what you were talking about had no direct relationship with the title of your post. you claim we all complain about being single and then you start discussing god? I honestly stopped reading at that point and decided to comment how horrible this post was.
I wonder what kind of cake that girl is eating? It looks good!
so date someone who isn't Christian?
and how does God have to do with laziness? if it's about keeping a long distance relationship work, then that means you're not single!!!
@Insomnia_Pickles_XtraTomato@xanga - you said it best.
onto my original comment on this blog..
LMAO! what does this have to do with the pic?? and btw. i am quite offended by that pic. yes, im 130 lbs. But it offends me still. Thats pretty much making fun of someones weight in my mind.
@At_Sixes_And_Sevens@xanga - aspergers isnt funny. alot more ppl have it then youthink, you may even have it.. youd be suprised who all has it.i bet someone in your family has it even if you dont. maybe he forgot to take his meds,
but at least you took your most important one, your stupid pill.
Uhmmm, for the record, my post about me being single wasn't exactly "bitching about being single". Idk if this post is trying to direct itself at me.. but it sure feels like it lol.
Saying that people are "lazy" and that's why they're single is really just a generalization, in my opinion =/ A lot have their own reasons and not everyone who is single BECAUSE they're lazy, but maybe because they choose to be? Hmmm.
But I'm not gonna go all crazy and attack your post because of that, cuz hey, you have your opinions, I have mine, and others have theirs.@TsuiTsui__123456@xanga - LOL. RIGHT!!?!? I was thinking the exact same thing!