Tuesday, 22 March 2011
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Why Does My Crush Suddenly Not Like Me Anymore?
So me and this guy who was just a guy friend starting talking more... well, he was talking to me. He would text me every day, and that's odd for him because he doesn't just text people for no reason. He's not the stereotypical guy though, he's kinda weird and does things differently.
So after a while of talking I developed a crush on him. His best friend has a thing with my best friend so it was perfect! but there is also another friend they have that's pretty chill and hangs out with all of us.
One night me and my crush were flirting and cuddling, while my friend and her crush were too, leaving out the other guy as usual. It was an awesome night and that's when I made up my mind that I liked him.
But then at school the next week he stopped texting me, and didn't talk to me as much at lunch. Last night his two friends came over and I thought he was too, but he didn't come. And his friend has been texting me, but I'm not interested in him.
Now I'm thinking maybe I should just forget about the other guy, but it's too hard. What should I do?
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o_O Maybe text him and ask him what his problem is?
You could be straight up. Ask him why he kind of disappeared and tell him that you really liked talking to him.
Just ask him why he is suddenly gone.
I'm going to guess that your in high school? Just a point of reference for me.
Before we all start reading into this far too much and you get some misguided or inaccurate advice, why not just text the guy? Stop playing games and send him something along the lines of, "Hey I haven't seen you in awhile, hows it going?".
And now I'll proceed into something that's probably not all that complicated...but here we go!
1. Is he always the one to initiate the texting conversations? If so this might lead to a bit of resentment from him or he could just assume that your not interested at all and he's moved on.
2. It's possible "Guy Code" is in play. Yes that immature and loose code of ethics might have surfaced here. Here's what I believe might have likely happened. After you and your best friend left a discussion probably started about the guy who was alone. The other two friends felt bad and the guy you were cuddling with probably decided he didn't want to start a fight with his friend over a girl. So he's being the bigger or better man, stepping aside, and giving his friend a shot.
3. Another girl came into the picture. Sorry if this sparks jealousy or paranoia but it happens xD.
4. He's lost interest because of something that happened when you two were cuddling or something you said in between that time and now.
Again before reading into this entire situation too much, like I probably just have, simply text or call him and see what's up. Don't threaten, don't insinuate, don't get jealous, in all likelihood it's nothing and he's probably been busy. Just say you haven't seen him in awhile and ask him how it's going. Then go from there.
Hope this helps!
his crush is now talking to him.
maybe you should talk to him! You yourself said he texted you a lot and then you two were cuddling and what not. So talk to him.
If not ask the friend why he's suddenly taken "an interest" when his friend and you are clearly interested in each other.
Be a friend and see what's up.
Probably waited too long to make a move. Missed your chance. Whoops.
Just text him and ask "you haven't seen him lately, what's up?" And go from there like you guys always do.
"he's kinda weird and does things differently." this means that he is stuck up and playing hard to get; he's a naomi campbell diva. he knows you like him, so he has the upper hand and is waiting for you to text him and chase him.
thats dumb. ask him whats up.
This would be better written as hypothetical narrative style.
I feel that sometimes chasing a man can make him freaked out and wonder "why is she being so clingy".
If it's only been a week or two, just play it cool.
Maybe his friend likes you. In that case, he's probably backing off in the name of man-code.
@fLiPgUy31O@xanga - That's the best way.
I'd confront him.
@fLiPgUy31O@xanga - Best response and being from a guy, he ought to know, lol :)
whoa, take me back to freshman year of highschool.
Just ask him - be it texting or asking him face-to-face. You don't ask, you'll never know. And if he's still ignoring you, he really isn't worth your time.
Two choices: 1) Ask him; 2) Forget him. If you ask him and his answer sucks, then forget him. Not fun, but not complicated.
if u do text him n he doesnt reply... just move on...
He wants attention; when he gets it then he'll get bored and move on... best for you to move on first and if he is really interested he'll come around.
@Thumper49047@xanga - this.
@LaBellaMorena - Concur
same with me..kinda..well, ok ishh lol. anyway i have a crush and we switched numbers on a friday..that day after skool, it was the best daay of my life. and he texted me till midnight! and he said the nicest things someone has ever said to me. i couldnt stop smiling! now he always said gtg goin to bed cant talk. and i promise ill txt u later..anddd he never does. but now even worst! He doesnt text at all! plus he acts like he likes someone else. (p.s he told me he liked me and me only) today i had my frend ask if he still liked me and..he didnt say anything. what should i do!!