Tuesday, 08 March 2011
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Why Are They Harassing Me?
A couple of my male classmates enjoy harassing me and it's getting annoying. They call me names, make fun of me, laugh at me, make fake love confessions, pour water on me, laugh at my glasses, ask me which one of them (There's four) that I find attractive/who I would have sex with.
*Sigh* Of course I don't let them get away with a lot of this stuff, I fight back, but they enjoy it when I dish them attitude, so it's a win/lose situation.
I'm not one of those perfectly manicured girls but I'm confident with my body. Do any of you think I'm just imagining that these guys like me?
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I really hope you and those guys aren't any older than the seventh grade.
Well I would say they are shitheads.... I never knew a guy who picked on a girl because he liked her. I knew a bunch of guys who would take the piss out of the "fit popular girls" and through it became comfortable round them and later became friends etc...
I would ask this for context... how old are you? What year in school is it? Do you know any of them outside of class? Does this behaviour only occur when in a group? Do they talk to you one to one?
Groups of guys can get carried away with horseplay, but these dudes just sound like assholes who should be avoided in my opinion. I would tell someone who can help you, or try and move class.Or tell them they are fucking childish wankers who can go and fuck themselves.
Haha, seriously? Either you're still in middle school or another troll got loose.
Either way - I've never met a guy (or group of guys) that was mean to a girl they liked on purpose for the sole point of being flirtatious unless they were pre or just barely post pubescent. Just ignore them because guys that pull stuff like that aren't worth your time anyway.
Lol. this post smells of grade school. Yeah boys like to show their affection this way. some go too far, others not so much. since your fighting back, i am willing to believe they want attention.
I used to do it too when i was a kid, stuffing leaves down this girls shirt. Lol. good times.
Sounds like guys going through puberty. I remember that "who will you have sex with" question running rampant....in 7th grade. They might ALL like you. But only to fill their own desires, not in it for a relationship.
Very ugly. When an elephant passes in the villages , lots of dogs bark at him, but the elephant finds it's own way quietly. Ignore them . The dogs do not know that if the elephant gives them a kick they will fly high in the sky.
So i'd advise that you just ignore them , leave them barking.. Do not react, Find your own way and fulfill you duty.You will definitely succeed in life.
With my experience, grown men don't act like this anymore. This is pretty much grade school behavior. I used to get beat up, picked on, names called. School was fucking horrible but now since i'm not fat nor ugly guys arent douchbags in that way anymore and i say 'in that way' because guys are still douchey to me but they def arent making fun of the way i look or being immature in general. I'm still baffled at this post. If you're over 19 this def shouldnt be happening. I question whether this is true or not now....
Why don't you just tell an authority figure about it? Ignoring them can only get you so far. They will continue to harass you.
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I had this happen to me in elementary/middle school. I've never heard of an adult male doing this but I'm not saying it's impossible either.
I guess the only general advice I can give is be blunt with them and make them look like fools. Get on their case about the possibility of them liking you to the point where you embarass the shit out of them. It might work but if it doesn't I'd just ignore them till they get bored with you.
@jeezshoua@xanga - Agreed
Op:
And I hope they aren't in middle school or elementary school..because this sounds like this..so bad. >.> I've never dated a guy in my adult years like this. You might have to tell an adult about this.
@PseudoEuphoric@xanga - I know, right?
After you said that they did all of that stuff, why would you think they like you? Actions speak louder than words... this has got to be a joke post.
I'm sorry this is happening to you. Though you have the power and the right to stand up for yourself. No matter how hard the battle is, you will win this war with them. Don't worry.
Because they see you as someone who won't fight them back.
Stand your ground and let them have it.
tell them to grow up and continue to ignore them. it will end eventually, just remind yourself that this wont go on forever, just until the school year ends.
"Do any of you think I'm just imagining that these guys like me?"
...Yes. LMAO
You HAVE to be an only child. Anyone with a sibling knows that if someone's bothering you, the more you react, the more they will do it. Plain and simple. Try doing that.
@AnonymousBlonde@xanga - Do you think they're this is their way to ask her to the Sadie Hawkins sock-hop?
since you say that you're confident with your body, then do you wear tight fitting tops? I knew of this girl at my school, who wore tight shirts and I'd notice guys following her around to take a peek of her cleavage
then she'd wear shorts with heels to school. this is probably why some schools implemented school uniforms. anyway, tell the teacher
That's some elementary school sh*t right there. Tell them to grow a pair and leave you alone.
o.o really?
yeah... these guys sound lime complete douches. doesnt sound like they have crushes or anything. it just sounds like they are asses.
and yes, you are imagining they like you. no guy who had any decency would tolerate the girl he likes being treated like complete shit.
I think you mean "lose/lose" situation. There was no winning option there.
The only solution is for all of you to grow up. Sadly, some people never do.....
@ask_ashleyyy@xanga - So what you're saying is if she ignores them, they'll go away. Yeah, because THAT theory has never been disproven. pfft
@a12906@xanga - Clearly it's proven to be at least mildly successful for some of us since I'm not the only one reiterating that suggestion in the comments.