Wednesday, 29 December 2010
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Mother Gives Birth at the Airport, Strangles the Child to Death, Dumps It & Proceeds to Catch Flight

Some stories can be laughed at, even if they're serious in nature. I'm known to be humorous in nearly all of my posts, but this story made my jaw drop in disbelief. (Skip to the end for another take on the case)A woman, possibly Ethiopian and in her mid-thirties, gave birth to her child in a Dubai International Airport toilet before boarding a flight. It appears that she ripped the umbilical cord apart with her bare hands as a chef would do with sausage links, and suffocated the newborn before trashing it. It's likely that a cloth was used to stifle the child's breathing, before it was barbarically tied up with its own umbilical cord and stuffed within the confines of a plastic bag.
The blood-ridden bathroom stall rightfully caught the attention of a passenger, who proceeded to contact an airport cleaner upon noticing a trail of blood that led to the garbage bin. After encountering this scene straight out of a horror film, the newborn was lifted and unwrapped. Still gasping for air, the child passed away moments later after a failed revival by the rescue team. The airport cleaner later stated, "...I decided to empty the waste bin which was covered with paper rolls. When I lifted it I found it to be a little heavier, so I got curious and started removing the tissue papers. I was stunned to see a baby all blue on the face and gasping for breath."
The most likely scenario is that the woman, who became pregnant out of wedlock, was trying to leave the UAE (United Arab Emirates) before giving birth to avoid a maximum sentence of three years in prison. Having been unfortunate enough to give birth before leaving, she opted to end the life of an innocent child in an attempt to keep herself out of prison. It's a criminal offense to have sexual relations or give birth to a child outside of wedlock in the UAE.
What a waste of life. This is a common occurrence, believe it or not. For example, in 2008, 17 children were abandoned by August but little is known about their well-being. It's possible that they suffered a similar fate. Cases like these really make me consider the idea of stripping the reproductive rights of certain people. I understand the situation that they're in, but they shouldn't have been risking pregnancy in the first place if jail time was undesirable enough to kill your own child. A woman's reproductive rights aren't inconsequential, but it's disheartening to see such disregard for life.
If you want to argue murder, this is a clear-cut case (pun not intended). For all of the debate over abortion and sentience, this story in particular almost makes it seem like a non-issue. And where is the logic in killing your child to avoid jail time, when murder will give you a larger jail sentence? I don't understand this at all. I shouldn't be trying to make sense out of her mentality, because it's clear to me that some people just aren't fit to be parents.
I'd like to forcefully flush her head in a toilet full of gasoline, then light her head aflame in my own recreation of the Ghost Rider. But as much as I despise this woman for her actions, I don't support the death penalty or an eye-for-an-eye mentality. I do hope she's imprisoned and left to rot in her own filth, however. Even the worst postpartum depression in the world doesn't turn a mother into this steaming pile of human waste. She's an example of the worst humanity has to offer. Welcome to the carnival of human filth.
Another Take:
Despite the deplorable actions of this woman, the laws are so Draconian that it may have forced her hand in the end. I can't claim to know what it's like being put in this situation, and although I don't excuse her actions in killing the child, the real issue here is the restrictive laws which made this scenario possible. Instead of introducing jail time for something as petty as having a child out of wedlock, they should be implementing women's rights, the ability to terminate, and birth control.
It's no question that if women had proper rights in the UAE, this would likely have never happened. I can sympathize with the woman, since she must have been so desperate that she chose to do the unthinkable. Her mind must have been spinning in circles, making it hard to properly judge the situation. Despite that, I still can't sympathize with her killing a newborn, when other options were clearly available, even if it involved leaving the child alive on the bathroom floor. In fact, fostering an orphaned child in that region is seen as an act of good faith. They view it as bringing the child back from the dead, so the newborn would have been taken care of.
During times of oppression, men and women can be pushed to do things that they normally wouldn't. It's a sad case all around, and while what she did is inexcusable, you need to point a finger at the bigger issue. It's completely possible that she had remorse and wasn't intending on doing this, but the strict laws led her to a sad psychological state.
What would you do in this woman's situation? Can this be justified in any way at all?
Do you place more blame on the law or the individual?
Discuss.Sincerely,
Nuñez Love DoctorCertified with a PhD in Aborted Mothers and The Vengeful Spirit of Newborns.
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Comments (132)
Sick
did she get caught?
That's terrible :(
I feel kind of bad for the woman.
I know she was wrong, and I could never do anything like that, but if you had the level of fear instilled in you that she clearly has had, maybe we'd be different too.
The law is wrong. You can't help social shunning, or a family disowning a woman for having sex or a child outside of wedlock, but you can make it so that she doesn't also face jail.
I genuinely feel sorry for the woman that was driven to murder because she was too scared to give birth in her home country. We're so lucky the worst we'd have to put up with are a few ill-placed "slag" jokes and a bit of a lecture off our parents. Poor woman, poor child. It shouldn't have had to end like that.
(though I do agree, leaving the child alive in the bathroom would have been a better option, but I also think she was probably more scared than you can ever imagine, and it was probably truly indoctrinated within her that she was an awful person and the baby growing inside her was a parasite due to her lack of self-restraint and responsibility.)
I don't think it's the law that caused this. She was the one who killed her child. Noone told her to do that.
God, this is just tragic. Both the law and the woman are at fault.
"suffocated the newborn before trashing it like rabid pro-choice enthusiasts at an abortion clinic."
That is called infanticide, not abortion. I'm not a fan of the misrepresentation. It distorts the actuality of pro-choicers everywhere like myself, many of us who wouldn't kill a child themselves, but understand abortion as a difficult decision that should be handled by a case-by-case basis, but shouldn't be ruled out for those who need it. Infanticide, on the other hand, is just wrong.
Anyways, this is fucked up on so many levels. It's horrible that she killed her child like this, it's horrible that the law instilled so much fear in her, and ...ugh, it's just awful.
Well, clearly the law plays a factor here, but I wouldn't go as far to say that "it wouldn't have happened if the law were different."
Lets face it, this happens in America too, where women are free to hump out of wedlock, use protection, get morning after pills, have abortions, and adopt.
I doubt the laws helped any, but I wouldn't go so far as to say they're at fault. She had a choice, and she chose to murder her child. Even abandoning it in the airport would have been kinder. This is sick.
i'd have the say it's the woman's fault. she knew the law and she chose to break it. she also chose to end this helpless child's life. she deserves to be punished.
@bass_chick57@lovelyish - It was a simple joke. I'm pro-choice, myself.
@dinguyen@xanga - what if she was raped
@Pcgecko85@xanga - she should've taken the child to the proper authorities. which is better? murdering an innocent child and being taken to prison or taking the child to the authorities and not facing as harsh of a punishment?
hmm 3 years in jail for being raped plus who knows what else was going on in her life. She probably should have left the child on the floor rather than trying to kill it first but I wasn't there and I don't live in that country so I'm not going to judge.
I can't even begin to imagine what life must be like over there. Of course my knee jerk reaction is "WTF is wrong with that monster??" but I don't know what on earth it must be like to live in such an oppressive environment. It's like @Pcgecko85@xanga mentioned, how do we know she wasn't raped? Commenters are quick to say "She shouldn't have had sex if those were the consequences", but who's to say it was consensual?
I think the whole situation is sad on so many levels.
Hey, I have an idea: let's ignore the fact that this is a dating blog, and instead post depressing and graphic accounts of murdered babies. That's what I like to see right next to "7 Ways to Avoid the Winter Relationship Blues." Fits right in.
Seriously: when even the "related posts" script is tearing its hair out to find something even remotely related to what you're posting, you're probably doing something wrong.
@TheLizarellaProject@xanga - 100% agree.
Okay, I read the title and thought this was an American (or 'western') woman/situation but it is obvious that there are many aspects making up this scenario.
1. That is soul-less of that woman. Honestly, take your own child and kill it, and so barbarically?!? Wow.
2. That law in the UAE is awful... they must have at-home abortions/murders like this very, very often... this makes it SO hard for women to do the right thing
3. Considering the above, she could have possibly been raped, making this all the more awful... trying to avoid a lifetime in jail because you were raped and are now pregnant out of wedlock... and a lot of women consider the babies conceived by rape differently than other babies (although I disagree).
Obviously this is an AWFUL, AWFUL situation that happened to this child and the mother should be punished. But, it must be recognized that there were so many other awful variables that brought the mother to this in the first place.
I'll save my rant about the uncalled for and misinformed pro-choice comment later.
But seriously, that's terrible...poor baby. And poor woman for having to live under that law.
Some people just aren't fit to have sex. Period.
Although I admit I am pro-choice in certain topics of abortion, this is absolutely disgusting.
And like you, my jaw dropped when I read this.
I'm sorry whatever her circumstances was that led her to getting pregnant; there is never a reason to kill a baby. None.
it is still wrong but I think it was a last resort out of desperation. she could either go to jail for 3 years and be shunned/disowned from her family and friends for the rest of her life, which is practically like she'd be dead to them, or go to prison in the states for a long time, life sentence perhaps, which is a dead end route, too. she could've spared her child's life but I think she didn't want her child to grow up knowing that she disgraced the family, so the child might be shunned. I don't condone murder of course but I still feel sympathy for her despite her "monstrous" actions.
@dinguyen@xanga - the "proper authorities" would have jailed this woman.
More likely than not, this woman was raped. An Ethiopian woman pregnant out-of-wedlock usually is. So she was raped, and for it, she would go to jail, and who knows what would happen to the kid while she was in jail. Let's not forget that third-world country jails are definitely not the same as American jails. I believe that given the circumstances, yes it is horrible, but the woman was not really left with much of a choice, though I agree she could have left the kid alive in the bathroom.
It's fine and easy for you people with RIGHTS to complain about the woman's actions, but perhaps you ought to be thinking of the cause (the laws), not the symptom (this woman's actions).
@AsylumBlue@mancouch - Then I'm curious as to why you have a problem with what this woman did.
@darkangel6541@xanga - It was a joke, and I'm pro-choice. You're better off saving your time I think.
@tavatava@xanga - I agree. Next time I'll find a topic to rehash.
@BimmerPhile@xanga - I don't agree with her decision to end the child's life when she had the option of just leaving it in the bathroom, alive.