Sunday, 21 November 2010
That's what turns men into assholes.
I had a friend once. He was a cute kid. He wore all the hip clothes and we listened to the same bands. He was new to school as well and a lot of girls liked him, including myself.
He once told me,
"I can't be nice to girls. If I do they all think I like them, but I'm just being nice."
And this is so true. A girl friend of mine told me regarding him, "I don't know if he likes me! He's so nice to me!"
When he's telling me he'd never date her, so I'm like, "uhhh.... maybe he's just nice?"
How many of you people have had a crush ignite just because the person was nice to you?
How many times have you heard a friend say, "I think he/she likes me, they're always so nice to me."
What's wrong with being nice? Why do we automatically assume someone is in love with us because they are nice to us?
But when they're assholes we KNOW they don't like us, so we usually don't have feelings for them.
I don't know what it is with girls these days, but they're so CLINGY! They "fall in love" at such a young age and so fast.
"I LOVE HIM!"
"You only have one class with him and he sits across the room and you never talk...."
"BUT HE MAKES MY DAY BETTER JUST BY COMING TO CLASS! This one time he said 'hey' to me and I could totally tell he was into me!"
How many delusional girls like this do you know?
When guys are nice, even when girls are nice, everyone thinks they're romantically attracted to who ever they're being nice to.
Sometimes, yes, this is the case, but I'm sure 90% of the time it isn't.
So since guys can't be nice without EVERY SINGLE GIRL falling "in love" with them, they become assholes.
But what does an asshole gain from being an asshole?
When a guy is an asshole to pretty much every girl, but then decides to be nice to the girl he likes, this girl thinks she is special and therefore usually returns the feelings, thinking she's oh-so-special, when really he's just being nice so she will like him.
Think about it.
How many times have you been nice to someone, found out they had feelings for you, and then started being a little meaner so they would stop having feelings for you?