Well I don't believe in going to dating sites looking for a boyfriend.

Do what I did: Go on there looking for friends or someone to talk to. That way you don't have these expectations to hold you down. If you meet up with them and they're a creeper then move on. If you meet up with someone and they're cool then continue hanging out with them! It doesn't have to mean you're dating. Let it develop on its own whether it leads to friendship or a relationship.

Thats how I did it and I finally got my boyfriend.

I avoid dating sites. Too much "hiding" behind the keyboard. I think the connection and reality is much stronger when you meet someone in person. You guys chat, hit it off, connect so well, have so many things to share.... The only real way to conquer what has happened is to continue looking. 

Eh, I'm 22 and I use dating sites occasionally, but I don't see them as an end-all, be-all, omg this guy that I'm chatting with is THE ONE sort of solution.  I approach them as a casual dating scene, sort of like a bar, but without the beer goggles and social anxiety (which is my main problem when it comes to dating, or going out in general, in real life).

If it feels awkward to you, then it's probably a sign that it's really just not working for you.  The best thing that you can do is just forget about it for a while and experience real life - get outside and get involved in some stuff in your new city.  Find a new passion, like urban exploring or Thai cooking.  Browse a local coffee shop for listings of book groups or something.  Go out to a bar with some coworkers.  Just find some ways to distract yourself, rather than looking for a potential mate, and you'll be happier which will honestly go a long way towards attracting someone.

There's a huge difference between dating websites, I think. Some only attract the scum of the earth... while others try to encourage nicer standards. In the end though, people do lie behind their computer. And I've seen FAR more attractive people in real life than online. I decided that it was not worth it, to get a quick date that won't last -- that shit just hurts you, and wastes your time, energy, optimism, and money.

"isn't it funny how in the time when we are feeling down/alone, we turn
to the one thing that further disconnects us from reality?" It's like alcoholism, or any other addiction, I guess. 

I've been browsing through some online dating sites recently, and all the guys seem a little creepy, with the exception of 3-5 of them. Looking through those sites gives me a headache, but some people do find love on them. I definitely don't think it's for everybody.

i met my fiancé on okcupid and we've been together a year n 6 months like other people said its just the luck of the draw. I didn't go on there looking for a boyfriend i was just on there for friends and if it lead to a relationship so be it. But i wont lie there are alotta of weirdos and older men looking for flings, thats not my thing at all lol you just have to not look as lame as it may sound it is the truth when i stopped looking i found someone and i couldn't be happier .. so hold tight the right man will come along till then just enjoy your life ;]

whether you meet on dating sites or in reality first, some people I've known lied right in front of my face and they think I don't know but I'm good at profiling their tone of words and body language actions, so they were giving me artificial comfort. what I'm saying is that people in reality can be just as shady as the people, who are on those sites. in my opinion, the greatest comfort is being at peace with your own mind. you don't need to depend on a guy to give you comfort, because if you settle for less, it'll just make you feel worse and prolong the feelings, instead of help it.

I'm personally not a fan of dating sites, but to each their own. 

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