Sunday, 07 November 2010
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I Orgasm Really Quickly... Am I Missing Out On Something?
I discovered, at a fairly young age, what an orgasm was.
Now, my friends who have yet to discover the big "O" seem to still have tons of fun in bed-- possibly for a longer time.
I mean, I love sex, but without orgasm it seems pointless.
I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of foreplay and sex because I'm so "bing, bang, boom" about it.
Now, don't get me wrong, I've gone for hours and hours and hours a couple times.
It's just not a regular thing for me.
So, readers, am I missing out on something?
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Sex isn't just about the orgasm. It's supposed to be about the intimacy you're getting with your partner.
At least you know you can orgasm! A lot of women can't. Challenge yourself: Go for two or three! The next ones should be a little harder once you get the big bang out of the way. Then you can think about pleasing him. Enjoy the sensations and a possibble additional O along the way.
@midge4ever@xanga - I don't know that sex is "supposed" to be about anything except procreation, lol! Sometimes after females come, it's like 'la de da...this is very very boring...when's he going to come? la de da??." I doubt there isn't an honest woman in this world who never had an orgasm and then had that thought!
@midge4ever@xanga - Yeah i agree.
To the Author- Orgasms are fine and dandy but once you "have it" just enjoy the time you are still "doing it" and i wouldn't say your missing out on anything because my favorite part of sex with my fiancee is the closeness i feel with him, like connected.
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@midge4ever@xanga - Agreed
hey, i'm just like you. (:
women can have multiple orgasms unlike men, who need some recovery time before the next one. sometimes there's the romantic slow and sensual sex, then there's the savage beast rough sex where I just want endless orgasms. I'll take both. people that can't orgasm or rarely do or men that can't have multiples are missing out
if you can orgasm quickly, it is a huge bonus.
lol it takes me a while to reach it. but i enjoy sex period. i enjoy the sensation of him going in and out not just the actualy orgasm. i love it all! maybe you just need the right partner :)
it doesnt sound like your missing out, but more like other girls are missing out who can't lol
youre lucky.. its like impossible for me to orgasm
you know you can keep going and do a whole bunch even after you have an orgasm. i'm jealous tho. D:
If you can orgasm quick then that's great! You are not missing out at all! If it bothers you that your partner is not giving you all the love making time you want then it's a communication thing that you need to let your partner know. If you usually have the same sex routine then change it up a bit. Do a role play or something to spice things up. Be creative! haha
You aren't missing out on an orgasm that's for sure...
I finish fairly quickly, as well, but my boyfriend and I usually keep going at it. Multiple O's are definitely something to brag about :) Just because you get to that point, doesn't mean you need to just stop and move on with your day. It can still be fun. I know sometimes after my boyfriend and I both finish we'll just lay around for a little bit and then start going at it again.
Sex is about intimacy, so if thats what you experience, as long as you enjoy it... why worry about changing it or if its "right or wrong"
if it works for you than you're ok. :)
He gets orgasms twice as much as I do. Sometimes thrice. But it's nice knowing that it's biologically more pleasurable for women than men. That makes up for it.
Same way. =] I used to think there was something wrong with me because I "orgasmed like a guy" (very quickly & often.. & always in the mood) but there's nothing wrong with multiple orgasms. Just take a second, do something to pleasure your partner, & slowly ease back into it for round 2.
I thought I was the only one but never mentioned the topic. At least there's no sexual frustration on your side!
@midge4ever@xanga - Yup.
The quicker you orgasm, the quicker you can have multiple ones. You're not missing out on anything, if anything, you have 'the gift' xD
@Uniqe_Icons@xanga - that's how i am with my husband :)
i could really careless if i orgasm or not. i know that sounds bad but i learned a couple months ago that more than orgasming i just enjoy the intimacy with my husband. the closeness...the one on one time. it's so...special to me.There are many worse things than orgasming quickly. I think many women would kill for that. To me it just shows how into your significant other you are and how sexually aroused you are. Besides, for a woman, an orgasm doesn't have to be a one-time thing.
"I mean, I love sex, but without orgasm it seems pointless."
:( Sadly, most of the time this is how I feel.
I have not much to say about this having no first-hand experience, but it seems to me that your mentality is not in the right place. Like, I think you said something like "I'm all bing-bang-boom" like you're trying to get through it. Slow down and enjoy the moment.
I can't have orgasms. So I'm kinda jealous.