Wednesday, 03 November 2010
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I Have More Men Than I Know What to Do With
I’m a huge fan of “Sex and the City."I love the pearls of wisdom the girls say in every episode. In one particular episode of “Sex and the City,” Carrie says that the only thing you need to get a date is another date.
I always thought that was an exaggeration, but apparently these “Sex and the City” girls know what they’re talking about!
I have more men around than I know what to do with! I know this isn’t something I should complain about. I just find this very interesting.
I’ve been walking around on cloud nine because I’m going on a date with my ex in a few weeks and my self confidence is showing because men are coming out of the woodwork.I now have a date for drinks this week with a guy from the country club, a date for dinner next week with someone I use to go to college with, and I met a fabulous guy at a Halloween party last night! I must be doing something right!
Do you think people are attracted to your happiness and more likely to ask you out? What have you done when multiple people are vying for your affection?
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hahah good for you! and guys are most definitely attracted to happiness, the same way we're attracted to happier guys. i guess it's like some vibe you're giving off. whenever i'm happier i'm always flirting more too. it just makes you feel good about yourself.
To be honest, this sounds just slightly arrogant because "so many men" are swooning around you.
I do agree with you that being happy attracts others, I mean who wants to be around a debbie downer?
Just because many men are attracted to her, doesn't make her arrogant. It makes her attractive.
It's a good thing to have all of these men gravitate towards you because being lonely is the last thing you'd have to worry about :)
Haha, 30 Rock did an episode about this, it was pretty funny :o) This just goes to show that no one is attracted to desparation.
Enjoy yourself/
One word: lucky. Haha, work it girl, and have fun (:
My guy friend once made a generalization about this after I'd experienced the same phenomenon. Men want what other men have. It may be a generalization, but I've found it true. Simple concept. I suppose.
Aw yay I'm happy for you :)
Your theory's definitely true, at least from what I've seen. It's simple but people definitely need to be reminded: happiness is one of the most attractive things ever... and also being seen as incredible desirable by the amount of guys you have vying for your attention ;):)
lol this is what happening to me now lollol well sorta lol
cool story bro
Good for you. A rather pointless post, but have fun, really. :)
I love attention from guys, too, but I know I'm a cold-hearted bitch about it. I don't lead guys on with the way I talk to them (at all) persay, but when I think a guy may be attracted to me, I spend extra time on makeup and clothes in order to get him to be ever more attracted to me, even when I have no intention of dating him.
the more social events that you attend, the more chances that you'll meet or attract multiple people, men, that might be interested in you when you mingle with the crowd. the right place and right attitude and appearance/body language does work to get attention. when I want attention, I know the types of places to go to get attention, where cute guys are known to hang out and possibly talk to me, and I dress accordingly to the types of reactions that I expect to get
i'm there with you. they are definitely attracted to your happiness.
happy girls are the prettiest girls
Are you sure you aren't just showing more skin and being more flirty?
I realized this happens to me in "phases" like. .. every 3 months or so a wave of guys would talk/message me 24/7 and ask me to go out for dinner, movie.. parties.. etc. It gets quite overwhelming but then after a while it would all die down for a duration and then start up again with same/different guys. It's very weird.
Girrrl, send some over -_-.
Or maybe I should take a leaf from your book and try to exude 'happiness.' Even when I know it's fake. Gaah.
Hm.. same problem.. kind of. Me & my not-so-caring-bf are getting ready to break up, well I have to break up with him because he's trying to keep me around for sex & it's been 6 months & I'm sick of being used.
So I found this guy on Facebook that I was friends with my sophomore year of high school & just started hanging out with him again, then there's an ex's friend I've been hanging out with.. and the guy I went to the bar with last night that's been trying to date me for the past 5 years or so, but he's like a (very annoying) brother to me so there's no way in Hell I'd date him..But the guy on fb I'm considering.. But idk because I do still like my 'boyfriend', but he doesn't treat me right, & so far the guy from school does.
As for the answer to your question.. Idk because I haven't been all that happy lately. I just usually have guys more interested in me when I'm with somebody than not.. It sucks =(
Yes! You just made me realise that. Well I just came out of a relationship (bad one) and have recently started to mingle again. I started out confident, and I was so happy being out of the relationship. And I think that does pull people to you, who wants to hang out with the loner, introverted person sittin in the corner lamenting their woes? In general, that is :p I don't want anyone to be offended.
But yes now I've going on strings of dates and they keep coming ;)