Sunday, 31 October 2010
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Just a Quickie: Girls and Their Games
True or false:
Women who say they don't like games are probably playing the game by saying that.
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False.
I refuse to play games and I hate when men play games with me.
(However, if they start playing games with me, and it gets to a certain point, then you better believe I'll either start playing back and/or drop them fast, depending on my mood.)
i'd say false. i play games with some (usually just flirting, a guy i'm seeing casually), but the ones i care about i don't. i'm straight up with them because i don't want to fuck it up.
People play games. Not telling someone how it is ("It's fine" when it's not) can be viewed as a game. Beating around the bush can be viewed as a game.
Games are ... bleh.
I mean, if they're fun games, I'm all for it.
If they're mindfuck games, I'll check that baggage at the curb.
i try not to play games, but it depends on what you view as a game.
like @laytexduckie@xanga - said, saying i'm fine can be a "game" and trying to sugar coat things can be a game.
I think girls who say they don't want to play games are not always the ones playing games but more so looking for a serious relationship and don't want to be misled in anyway to falling for a person to later find out they were being played with.
There is a difference of protecting yourself and playing games.
But, When I say no game... I mean no games I will be honest about what you ask and expect the same in return... no need for games and lies...
the question is too broad. what kind of games?
when i feel insecure and that i'm not getting enough attention, i end up playing head games with myself, but i usually just try to leave the dude alone....it takes me about a day to get through that
FALSE. I prefer getting straight to the point (whether it be simply dating, FWB, or potentially serious relationship) rather than play guessing games. That sh...tuff got old in high school.
people have different ideas of what games are. im really turned off by people who always preface that they don't like games. im not the girl u dated last. chill the eff out.
touche!
The game.
You just lost it.
true. so true. haha. all of you who just talked about not liking games are the people who like games. walked right into that one...
I only flirt with guys that I genuinely like. if I don't like him anymore, I'll be blunt and tell him the brutal truth because I don't care if I hurt his feelings. guys sometimes say what they don't necessarily mean, just like some girls do, too, or they tell white lies and play "games."
I don't even know how to play games, sooooo...
Oh! Like John Tucker Must Die stuff... Yeah, I only mess with guys that hurt my friends. Or that you can tell are only there for the night.
I say False.
My husband and I do not play games with each others minds. If we have a problem we're straight forward about it and it explain what the problem was and how it hurt/made him or her mad. We don't play ignore games or pretend either of us are mind readers. We want out marriage to last and he is in the military so we barely see each other. We don't have time for games, long fights, or even making up. At the beginning of a relationship we weren't so straight-forward. Now that we are, things are better and happier all around!
Absolutely LOL!!!
Definitely false. But not always. You have to know the girl better to know whether she likes playing games or not, even if she says this.
False.
Could go either way. I hate games but most girls that play games will say that anyway.
No, that doesn't nessecarily mean that. I don't think all women like games. And some women like games, but only part of the time, mainly when we're winning. Sometimes, we play games to avoid love and other times, we play games to bring someone closer to us.
And I'm pretty sure guys play games too. They're so into "sports" and whatnot.
@pinktiger335@xanga - agreed
All women play games period!
You can't generalize this and say girls/women do this or that. In the end, each gal is either going to be honest with you or not.
Me being a girl myself, I do say girls are complicated and really messed up for taking pleasure in playing mind games, but ironically enough, guys still go after them b/c it is a game and challenge for them. It's as if they can't get enough of the girl b/c she doesn't let him in. Those are the girls that like having guys fighting over them. Sometimes it ends up fatal...
Be careful guys. There are decent women out there.
probably. if it's a fact it doesn't need to be stated; it would just be obvious.