Monday, 25 October 2010
I have gone to college for three years and it seems like everyone must have dated and hooked up. I had never gone out on a date until March this year and never kissed until last week.
This is what happened:
People around me always say it's OK to hook up, kiss, make out with a guy, etc. and that it's fun. That when we are young, we should have fun with opposite sex.
I doubted this because I am a Christian and have high morals. However, I had always been curious about what kissing and making out feel like so last Saturday after a party, a guy and I flirted with each other hand we ended up kissing.
We did it at the spur of moment and didn't have feelings for each other for sure. After the whole making out session, I felt so guilty because I still like the guy I used to go out with. Then I talked to my several female friends and they all said it's fine and kissing is innocent.
When I sat and thought about it, I realized I enjoy making out and like the feeling of being liked. Plus people say all college girls do that so it's not a big of a deal.
How do you feel about college hookups? Is making out with random guys bad? If not, is there a line you shouldn't cross?