Saturday, 23 October 2010
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A Letter To My Next-Next Boyfriend Part II
Dear Next-Next boyfriend,
Previously I wrote a letter to you of what I want from you in a relationship. I guess it was selfish of me putting pressure and all the blame on you if things don't work out. Like I said earlier, I'm not a perfect person, but I do try to be perfect.
I would like to tell you what I would do as a girlfriend. I would love, care, and (try to) understand you. I am an understanding person, and I will understand your busy schedule and try to help you out when you have problems. I love and care about people in my life, thus, you can't worry about me not caring about you.
There will be times when I will be busy with school, but I will always find time to send you a text and even call you at times. I don't mind times when we just sit and do nothing either, I just want to be near you, so don't confuse the silence for awkwardness or boredom. Sometimes, words aren't needed.
I'm an observant person, or so I like to think. If I hear you say something about liking something, I will take note of it and when I go shopping I will search for it. But if I don't find it, I will look for something else you might like. I like giving gifts to my boyfriends at times randomly, just to show I care.
Of course I'm an affectionate person, so I will give you a peck here and there in public and well, I do like giving hugs and holding hands in public. Please don't confuse that for being all over you, I know you want to make out as much as I do, but do save it for our private time. Also, I don't have my hymen and well, if you're a virgin, I don't want you to feel pressured by me to have sex, or feel threatened by me. I will respect you being a virgin and i won't pressure you for sex.
If you love and treat me right, I shall do the same.
Sincerely,
A.R.
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I'm going to try to write one of these :)
in essence, you're more of a settled down kind of person and should seem to look for someone who has a similar mindset, too many guys are just out and about not willing to commit or settle down. But hopefully that right guy would come, but sometimes it means at the "right" time so who know when that would be, but when that time comes... (big grins)
@tictact0e0@xanga - Yup, I guess I am that kinda person. I want a long term relationship but I'm not ready yet for marriage. I still have school and well, I'm under 21 so I want to experience being drunk at a bar on my birthday without worrying about having a husband who will see me like that. But yea, I do want someone long term. My last 2 relationships have been so short, and well, it's sad, since one of them has commitment issues and the other I really don't know...@UnconventionalButterfly@xanga - Yup do try, it's quite interesting, and it gives you a chance to know what you want in a relationship and how you will improve/better yourself as a significant other
i agree with both of your "letters" posts. they sound a lot like what i would say.
beautiful.
@dude_this_world_sux@xanga - @ko0ky@xanga - Thanks guys!
@UnconventionalButterfly@xanga - Me too. This looks cute. :)
yea i think i should write one as well :)
i love you writing these! good luck on finding the virgin boyfriend, somehow i found mine? which is my current/longest relationship ever and i love it, its like they are all yours! but i hope you find someone that makes you happy !!
@unscriptedmemoirs@xanga - Thanks! I don't really want a virgin boyfriend...it'll be awkward. I want one that is a bit experienced but isn't a player
I've thought about writing one of these but I dont really know what I want to say!