Friday, 15 October 2010
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I'm Looking at Your Cleavage Because You Put It There
Ladies, you know darn well that when you put your Bazooka Joes on display, you want us guys to notice. You don’t have to admit to it, because it’s a no brainer for us to figure out. If that weren’t the case then why in the world would you put them on display?
Then there are the tight pants and short skirts.
I’m not going to lie to you: when I see a woman in tight pants or a short skirt, I’m going to sneak a peek. I’m just being honest. Those who dress that way know I am too. After all they’re putting the best features of their physique on display. The purpose of putting something on display is so it can be admired. Am I right?Now I know of someone who dresses quite provocatively on a daily basis. The funny thing about it is that she gets offended when she’s gawked at or catches someone staring at her. Now by no means do I condone disrespect, but understand that a guy is not going to be eye-to-eye with you if your boobs are in his face. That’s just real talk.
Now I understand that some of you want to show off, but know that you come across more confident and frankly more attractive when you’re covered up. By being covered up, it lets our minds just wander, and it also shows us guys just how comfortable you are in your own skin by dressing appropriately. That is when you truly display your assets.
Do you think guys automatically check out girls? Should girls cover up?
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I think that if a woman is dressing in a revealing way that she should be prepared for people to look. I'm drawn to breasts when they are popping out of a dress. It's hard not to look. I think there is a difference between "looking" and "I'm a leering asshole" though. I never wear a low-cut dress to get douchebags commenting on my tits. I might wear a low-cut dress if I'm going out dancing to feel sexy. I don't mind if people glance over, but be polite and glance and then look away. Don't talk to my tits.
I certainly agree with you here! If a girl dresses provacatively on purpose, she really has no right to complain when guys stare at her.
If you aren't selling, don't put out the display.
@MiaJoyTheWriter@xanga - agreed
she gets offended when unattractive males are gawking at her. if they are hot guys, I don't mind, and maybe want them to stand a little closer
If you show it off, expect the good, the bad, and ugly checking you out.
The looker should be polite, but I don't see anything wrong with admiring a beautiful figure.
@MiaJoyTheWriter@xanga - agreed
Why did you publish what is essentially the same post twice?
Guys check girls out (and vice versa), girls shouldn't cover up (and vice versa), and they shouldn't be offended either (and vice versa). If anything, I'd take attraction as a compliment.
girls dress to impress. if you wear your normal baggy shirts and jammy pants no one is going to take a 2nd look at you. if you wear a tiny little skirt with a halter top i wouldn't be able to guarantee it!
so its the girls fault not the guy
I agree with some of these girls. As long as (s)he is being polite about the way they are looking, seeing as it is natural especially when girls are dressed like that, then the girl cannot complain. Anyways guys will stare at you and make odd comments even when you are covered. So those girls cannot really complain anyways. If a guy is going to stare when you are covered, they are obviously going to stare if you are dressed provocatively.
There's a difference between looking at what someone is showing off and talking at her chest. If I am wearing a low cut shirt by all means notice - obviously, yes, I wanted to be noticed. But if you are having a conversation with them look at their face. Regardless of what they are wearing. It's just polite.
I definitely agree with @P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga. Girls only get offended if they see the beauty-impaired guys looking at her. Double standard, much?
@P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga - Well said.
Are they real or something else?
i agree.
um... not all guys are pervs like you. i don't mind being stared at. but Jesus Christ, aren't you an adult? don't use cleavage as an excuse to act like a pervert. a real gentleman can look me in the eye when i'm completely naked.
seriously... you must have some serious self-control problems.
@too_pretty_to_die@xanga - i guarantee... a real gentleman as you put it, may look you in the eye when you're naked, but he won't be thinking about the conversation at all, he'll be thinking of how to look at you once the conversation's over...
@JYL11002@xanga - then i must be dating a super-gentleman.
bottom line, guys need to take responsibility for their own dirty thoughts.
there's a fine line between trashy and sexy.. apparently no one can tell what is trashy and what is sexy..
@PseudoEuphoric@xanga - inflict? you know, once upon a time, women could be blamed for being raped if it was found that any lustful thoughts of the rapist were "justifiable." i take it from your argument that you'd agree with such a notion.
sorry, but i dress how i want to. if guys stare at me, that's their choice. not mine.
@PseudoEuphoric@xanga - seen it. and guess what? every single one of those guys are responsible for their actions, 100%. NOT the women. there are plenty of things that offend me more than scantily clad people. i don't advocate for them to be banned. why? because i'm an adult, not some easily brainwashed creature with no willpower.
whatever guy thinks it's ok to treat a woman in such a way, regardless of what she is (or isn't) wearing, is barely more than human and should be treated the same as a rabid dog: taken out back and shot.
agree