Thursday, 14 October 2010
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Blame It On The A-A-Alcohol
The goose got you feelin' loose?
Ever hear a version of this line before:
"I was like, SO drunk last night. I woke up in some guy's bed...again. (Insert giggle here.)"
Everytime one of my friends or some random chick that I happen to overhear (because yelling is the appropriate voice level these days) says a line like that, I roll my eyes.
It's one thing if you want to go out and have random, carefree sex. If that's your thing, go for it. (Just make sure you're safe.)
HOWEVER, if you blame your sexual adventures solely on alcohol, then I think there's a problem here.
Girls at my college are constantly telling anyone who wants to listen that they made a mistake, and that they were just wayyyy too drunk, and "totally wouldn't sleep with that guy soberly."
Granted, everyone makes mistakes. You drink a little too much one night, and you end up doing things you might not normally do.
BUT, if this behavior is happening multiple times a week, can these girls really still blame the alcohol?
If you are going to whine and complain about all your "mistakes," then I think you should be more careful about how much you drink and who you are drinking with.
Also, bragging about it to everyone in your surrounding area doesn't make you look any more remorseful. Just saying.
What do you guys think? Should these girls be allowed to still blame it on the alcohol?
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I don't like when people blame their personal actions on anything but themselves, but that's just me. I purposefully have nothing to do with those people. Should they be "allowed" to do it? Sure, because chances are, the people willing to put up with it are doing the same thing even if it's not about the same situation.
I think it's silly to blame it on the alcohol.
Not unless it's breaking you down at the same time. You'll start feeling fluffy and stuff.
There are some guys who are good at this and when a girl has given up, she justifies it.
She's Ke$ha. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iP6XpLQM2Cs
In most of my environments, it's like, can I just be a prostitute? I'm an animal. I've gotten over caring about my body. People who want a nice society don't understand this, yet they press us to it. No, because that's worth, and it's how you destroy me. I've been defamed.
It's either do that or circumcise me.
I get drunk sometimes and I'm still aware of my surroundings and who I'm with. Yeah, I might say random or awkward things but I never get drunk to a point where I won't remember it the next day. Girls like that just make me wonder if they get shitfaced on purpose because alcohol doesn't make you sleep with random people. I think people tend to forget that they're in control of what and how much they drink.
I'd sleep with anyone. I don't care. In fact, the cash from it would be enough to slide me for awhile. I do NOT want a relationship, which is why they value it.
I am a virgin though, if machine rape doesn't count. It's apparently suicide. So I didn't kill myself or invite the opportunity... that means that you lose.
And I really didn't care before that, but they use it.
The reason for that is complicated.
Stupid is as stupid does.
I hate college girls for this sole reason. Even the smart ones do this from time to time. I'm just all about not drinking, because if you're always sober there's no reason to make such a mistake.
blame their mistakes on alcohol,
not should they drink.
I have been quite drunk on occassion,
to the point that I dont remember
the night before, however, i have never
done anything drunk that I wouldnt
do sober. (I know because I only drink like
that when I am around people I trust
and know even if i don't know what's
going on, they do.
Alcohol is not an excuse for anything.
maybe you speak a little louder,
throw up,act silly, get angry, or go to
sleep quicker (there are different
types) of drunks, but that girl/guy
you fucked last night- you were
desperately horny and you'd do it
sober. (you just don't want anyone
to know) you're using alcohol
as an excuse, but it's really one
that's unacceptable.
Take some personal responsibility, enough said.
"HOWEVER, if you blame your sexual adventures solely on alcohol, then I think there's a problem here."
i agree completely. i haven't heard this excuse yet at college, actually, but this dumb - girl - (i was going to use another word but trying to reign my anger in) used that excuse whenever she messed around with one of our friend's guys.
I DONT' CARE HOW DRUNK YOU ARE, DO NOT TOUCH THEM.
the thing is, miss "i was so drunk" was pathetic because she only had five beers over the span of about four hours, and when my friend told her to stop doing what she was doing, she went back upstairs and did it. that is some character flaw she has in herself, not in the alcohol she's drinking.
that excuse really pisses me off. i could say more but my language would turn quite vulgar.
If they have a tendency to sleep around while that drunk, then maybe they should learn not to drink that much to the point of blacking out and doing shit you wouldn't do normally. I admit making this mistake more times than i can count, but hey.. It happens. And it's certainly not something you can blame on the alcohol. It's your own faulte for allowing yourself to get that drunk..
Girls like you mentioned annoy the crapp out of me!
I agree with you, but what disturbs me more is the fact that they feel they need to justify their sexual encounters. If someone wants to get off, they want to get off--they shouldn't be ashamed of that.
It may be a girl's fault for getting that drunk when she knows she makes bad decisions... but the alcohol still inhibited her ability to make the decision she would or should have.
I think it's incredibly scary that college girls, and girls in general are like this. I don't think that anyone should get to the point where they are willing to sleep with someone that they wouldn't usually sleep with because they are too drink. I think that means that something else is going on, and they are definitely abusing alcohol. It's easier to blame outside sources though for changing them then to accept responsibility, and take the walk of shame. But I guess girls will have to start respecting themselves, and caring about themselves before that will ever happen.
if these girls are going to be continually embarrassed of who they slept with while drunk, then why not just find a super hot guy while sober and sleep with him proudly. wow, they're lame sluts.
These girls need to start owning up to their actions rather than constantly excusing themselves as the victim. It's really SO annoying, and no one's impressed.
No never blame the alcohol. Blame the girl for blaming it. lol
guys shouldnt be sleeping with girls under the influence...isnt that illegal? because they couldnt say "no" ..their consent is shit if theyre wasted pretty much..
anywho..i hate the excuse..oh i was drunk..i mean it depends where u are..it can heighten ur "senses" and you might get in the mood or whatever..but u have a choice of whether to take it from harmless dancing to naughty makeout session..to random one night stand... Its all up to you....
and why would u brag about it? idk any girls in their right mind who would!! Though I have heard some crazy stuff on my campus..im just like WOWWW i wanted to know that..WOWWW why are u sharing that with the whole world? You would think it's a personal FAILURE or something she feels SHAMED about? but OBVIOUSLY NOT if she has no problem screaming it all over the place...
Also, I think it's hard to say that you can't blame alcohol when you're blacked out drunk. I know I'm never one to initiate anything, but if a guy starts hitting on me when I'm that drunk, I'd probably let him keep talking to me and whatever else happens after that. If I was still concious or sober, I probably would have denied his advances because I could think properly and know that that tool was just wanting to score. But because I'm blacked out drunk, I'd probably be horny and just let it happen. So, I dont know if I'd be able to blame it on the alcohol because deep down I probably wanted it, but if I was a bit more sober I would have denied his advances because it would be stupid and inappropriate to hook up then.
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LoL this isn't a female problem, it's transgender.
2 Words: Beer Goggles.
Now with those words being said, we're only human.
So people will naturally go out and try to get some ass if they want it.
I am almost certain Tucker Max uses alcohol to his advantage.
e.g. Normally I wouldn't, so let me drink some more.
But then again, Tucker isn't a normal human being, he's running on pure testosterone.
By the same coin, most people aren't willing to admit their inner beast, that they just wanted to fuck and needed an aid to make it happen on occurence's eve.
Just my two cents.
Oh and no they shouldn't be able to blame it on alcohol. Just like guys shouldn't be able to say the same, for whatever undesirable physical dis-attraction the female allegedly suffers from.
The same excuse only works so many times. And I also think that alcohol doesn't "make" anyone do anything they don't want to do. It just lowers people's inhibitions so that they do what they wanted to do all along. Someone won't sleep with someone they find repulsive when they're drunk. The people they sleep with might not be the ones they had on their minds the whole time, but if they're horny and they want sex with anyone reasonable attractive, them the alcohol will take away the inhibitions that normally would have stopped them.