Wednesday, 13 October 2010
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Just A Friendly Message to Boys Who Want to Get in My Pants...
So, being recently single and whatnot, I have had quite the flood of boys texting me, messaging me, etc. Whether they are past hookups or not, they all want to get in my pants.
I don't mind the attention but a few things have gotten on my nerves....1. If I don't text you back right away, DO NOT text me again asking if I'm there. If you have something witty or clever to add, go ahead at text it.
But if you text me back just to ask if I'm there, I will probably not respond.2. If I don't respond to your text that said "you there?" then DO NOT call me. If I'm not texting you back, I am probably busy or do not want to talk to you.
3. Do not ask me 1,000,000 times if I like the picture of your penis you sent me.
I deleted it a few days ago and haven't thought about it since then. While I appreciate the gesture, it doesn't do much for me.4. Don't act all emo-like when I'm having fun or doing something fun. If I tell you I'm hanging out with my friends don't get all upset and give me a "well have a good night then... I guess."
Go hang out with your friends and let me hang out with mine.5. If you want me to talk to you, there are other things to talk about besides sex. If that's all you want to talk about, talk to someone else because I'm not interested.
6. Don't call me honey. I'm not your girlfriend, that simple.
7. Don't assume that you will get in my pants. It's cocky and unattractive. Only I decide who gets in my pants.
8. Talking about other girls is not a way to get in my pants. I want to think I'm the only girl, do not ruin that for me.
9. Don't tell me you can't hang out because you're watching football. It's called DVR... Or at least make up a better excuse.
Guys, if you are doing this, please do yourself a favor and DON'T. Girls, has a guy ever done any of these things to you? Do you also find them annoying?
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woops i must be sending out all the wrong signs then
i call everyone hun
and honey
i dont know why , i just do
Luckily, I don't give my phone number to guys who jump at the chance to get in my pants when I'm single. I don't even associate with guys like that.
seriously? (goes speechless for a bit) wow, I feel bad for you in a way just to get such crap, so good luck with weeding them out. As for getting into your pants..., I don't know you enough to really comment on that but from what I have read from you so far, it seems like you're deserving of someone that could actually be attentive to you, whether of not if you and whoever the other person is are ending up together in a relationship or just mature enough to handle unattachment and sex so I wish you well with that.
3,5,7,8,&9
TOTALLY AGREE. number three made me laugh.
@MiaJoyTheWriter@xanga - Me either. I'm a bit smarter than that..
@littlechef1@xanga - Same.
I don't really talk to people who act that way. If they don't treat you like a friend block them. All they want is a booty call, why have them stick around? Plus, I can clearly see down your shirt in your picture, and its definitely giving guys wrong wrong idea. Don't blame guys for everything, because you clearly don't mind teasing them with that picture.
@UnconventionalButterfly@xanga - I agree completely, wearing a shirt that shows that much of your.. ya'know.. obviously doesn't help your situation at all. Just saying.
FOOTBALL IS A LEGITIMATE EXCUSE! MUST BE WATCHED LIVE!
Most guys will only assume they'll get into your pants if you portray yourself that way.
I'm curious to why someone would send you a picture of their penis, anyways? Or if you don't want to text or talk to someone, block em. Why tolerate it unless you (obviously do) like the attention? But if they're doing it just to get into your pants, it's not worth it, anyways. Or is it?
To answer your question, nada. No one has ever done those to me because I don't associate myself with those sort of people.
@npr32486@xanga - I agree!!! It's the "in the moment" thing that makes football worthwhile to watch!
@UnconventionalButterfly@xanga - It's just cleavage, I don't tend to think much when I see it. Women like to show it off. I'm not going to assume a chick wants sex because she's wearing a low cut shirt.
@jeezshoua@xanga - Girl that watches football? AND enjoys it?! Be still my heart.
lmao number 4 is so spot on. Such a damn turn off.
OMG. story of my life.
haha.
1,2,3,4,6, and 7 are so relevant to my situation right now. LOL.
This was an enjoyable list to read till i got to #9. DVR football? r u fucking serious? Football for guys is much a social event as it is entertaining to watch. Thats why a woman that will watch (and gasp! enjoy) sunday football with their SO is as rare as a good datingish post.
I cannot think of a single person that watches football alone. DVR lmao.... that's a good one.. i suspect you may be out of touch with normal guys.
A for effort.
1-8 deserves an amen.
@Bushy_Tailed@xanga - you're one of the few .... most guys do assume that a girl is easy if she takes pictures like that one.
not gonna lie, the guys that I tease, my intention is to get them to desire and want me, so I love the attention and they don't annoy me. I don't have a flood of males messaging me though because I'm an elitist and only tease super cute guys that I don't mind the attention from.
i guess i just don't talk to any guys who just want to "get in my pants" i'm not the same kinda girl as you... honeyy.
Maybe you should talk to better guys. Or not be loose.
The only reason I've ever had guys act like this towards me, whether I'm newly single or have been single for awhile, is when I'm reciprocating the feelings and making them think I like it.
I'm sorry to bring attention to this, but your message to the boys has been voided.
Unfornuately, sending a message to the boys with a profile picture showing that much cleveage, kind of kills the serious mood of the blog.Otherwise, all are good...except 9. Seriously, record any sporting event? You must not know the depressing feeling of watching a recorded game, its just not the same. What kind of sadist are you?!>=( And #1 just seems sort of...mean. Right away as if life depended on it? I know what you mean but...wording could've been different.
1-8 yesssss hahaha .. last one, i'd rather know the truth .. cause hey if he'll rather watch football than hang out with me.. NEXT! :)
I'm just tired of boys in general. I need to start dating chicks