Friday, 08 October 2010

• You Know He's a Jizzwad If....

  I keep reading and hearing these stories of women chasing down or stuck on men who, based on every thing they say, couldn't care less about them beyond when their legs are spread.
  
  Isn't it a big heavy anvil on your head that, if the only time a man devotes any attention to  you is when he's getting laid, he doesn't care about you, or what you think, or how you feel? Is that really someone to whom you wish to devote any amount of your precious time, energy or emotion?

  Let's summarize:

  1. If he keeps multiple aspects of his life a secret or does not allow you to have access to them...he's a jizzwad. 

  2. If he insists on engaging in frequent get togethers with other women without you...he's a jizzwad.

  3. If he doesn't incoporate you in to his life, but continues to let you pay his way, or continues to have sex with you and allows you to bend over backwards to accomodate him...he's a jizzwad.

  4. If he can't be bothered to retain anything you've told him, or manages to make every situation about him, or he immediately tries to turn the tables on you instead of owning up to his mistakes...he's a jizzwad.

  5. If after 3+ months of dating he tells you he's not ready to be exclusive, or make a firm commitment, but proceeds to act like a boyfriend by taking you on trips, calling every day, buying you things...he's a jizzwad.

  But... If you continue to engage these men, mindful of the shit they're pulling, and refuse to pull the trigger yourself, guess what? You're as much to blame as they are.
  
  Instead of trying to analyze why these men do what they do, or instead of villianizing them, ask yourself why you allowed them to do these things in the first place. Once? Twice? Okay...bad luck. But if this is your baseline, your norm? Guess what? Time for a little introspection.  
  
  What say you? Any other signs that should alert you of jizzwad status? 

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