Wednesday, 29 September 2010
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The Ghost From Blackbook's Past
So it's just a typical Monday night. You're in bed watching your favorite TV show when suddenly your phone goes off. To your surprise, it's that guy you have only seen maybe once or twice. Oh HELLO, what planet did he hail from?You are flattered yet confused at the same time. What the hell does this dude want from you? And why are you being attacked by an army of winky faces?
Listen gals, let's admit it. We like attention from guys, and to be honest it can be pretty much any broad. But what do you do when you get the random text from someone who you thought lost interest in you eons ago?
There are only TWO motives for this:
A.) He wants your goods.
He is pretty much a hornball and probably hasn't done it in a while. So he decided to scroll through his various numbers that he has collected throughout the years..."Busty Bartender" "Florist I'd like to deflower" "Emergency Fuck" and the list goes on. Basically if the entire conversation revolves around when you are available to pound some shots as opposed to how your day was....well I would consider deleting that number fast.
B.) He wants you.
Maybe while he was sipping his coffee that morning he saw a couple wipe foam off of each other's mouths and realized he wanted that. Guys tend to have sudden revelations, hence why it's always hot or cold with them. If you notice they are never lukewarm about anything because it signifies confusion. Unfortunately us females have been blessed with this lukewarm syndrome. So if he is contacting you to catch up and seems genuinely interested in your life then you have nothing to worry about.
So when you face an encounter with the ghost from blackbook's past, REMEMBER to focus more on his true intentions and less on the fact that you are getting attention from a guy.
Do any of you have any stories where a random text led to something more?
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Comments (3)
Ugh, I hate it when that happens. Especially when it's a guy you used to really like, and he pushed you away. And then suddenly it's, "Hey, I have talked to you in a while, how're you doing? I miss talking to you!"
I think in that situation, you've been put in the friends zone, and he still likes your companionship, but wanted to give you time for your feelings to die out before trying to really be your friend.
Maybe from my ex a long time ago. When we were still struggling to make our relationship work..but that's over now.
Grr, I especially hate it when this happens. I had met my current bf's best friend from high school at a party we went to. The friend and I hit it off immediately since both of our parents had us later in life than most of the other parents. Then the bf and I broke up for a while. The friend and I went out a couple of times and chatted online every night. He disappeared for 4 years, came back last year through Facebook, and then disappeared again after I told him I have a gf. He just contacted me again a few months ago, needing me to tell the cops about our relationship b/c he had dated an underage girl.
Always be cautious whenever the ex contacts you after so many years of not talking to you. Usually it either means it's a booty call or he needs something from you. The cases where he wants to be your friend are slim.