Tuesday, 17 August 2010
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Cheat Confession: Infidelity and Jail
Have you ever visited Cheat Confession? It's a site where people who have cheated/ been cheated on go to come clean or ask for advice. And they want help from our opinionated and helpful Datingish readers.
Sad said:
"My boyfriend sold drugs and I accidentally led him to a snitch, so he got locked up because of me. I said I would wait for him, but then started hanging out with a coworker (who had a girlfriend who also worked with us) from work behind his back. I told my boyfriend I was at work when I was really at his house. This went on for about two months until he ended it because he knew I was never going to leave my boyfriend for him. The truth came out a week later and me and boyfriend are doing so bad.... It's been a month and all we do is argue. He's going to get transferred to prison soon and I think he might talk to other girls behind my back because he has no love for me anymore... he told me the only reason why he's keeping me around is so I can take care of his things out here.
Can you give me some advice?"
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He sold drugs? What a catch he is.
Dump his sorry ass. You shouldn't have cheated, but really? Fuck that.why are you going to wait for someone in prison?? doesn't seem like you would have a bright future ahead of you...
Lol you cheated on him and YOU dont trust HIM? THATS A LAUGH.
He said he's only with you so that you'd watch his stuff. He doesn't love you and you cheated on him so obviously you don't love him either. Separate.
Okay. Let's see. He sells drugs, he's in prison, you expect him to "cheat" on you, you've cheated on him, and he's only keeping you around for practicalities...wow, sounds like a really functional relationship to me.
That was sarcasm, by the way.
Honestly? This situation is too mired in disfunction to even think twice about. End it for both your sakes, and find someone who isn't into drugs. Oh, and stop freakin' cheating on people. That is all.
-Katie
It's quite clear that the both of you don't love each other, and why you are asking us all for advice is beyond me.
@fairiesmythsdragons@xanga - I think, sometimes, people can not see the graves they've dug for themselves because they've been surrounded by dirt walls for so long.
Like this poor woman. It's really sad. Yet, I agree she should get out of the relationship.
Simple advice: Grow Up
I know a girl who is in the exact situation, it's crazy.
Just break up, I know it's easy said than done, but when you clearly realize that you don't love him and he doesn't show any love either -- why stay?
And you should tell that girl what you did. She also doesn't need to be wasting time with a jackass who doesn't respect her.
um......HELLO McFLY! poor girl??? get outa here! this girl is F'ing psycho! ok fine the dude sold drugs. i knew lots of guys that sold weed in high school. that doesn't make you the worst guy in the world...but more importantly, it is a seperate issue than in the relationship.
the guy obviously wasn't bitter about her getting him in jail. but then she cheats on him with a guy with a girlfriend already!
poor girl?! can anyone on datingish not be so completely biased all the time?
they separate the female and male prisoners in jail so I don't think he'll meet girls there to talk to behind your back unless he flirts with the buff female security guards. you got him in prison and cheated on him behind his back yet you are now worried about him getting revenge by cheating on you?! I can see why he got no love for you anymore after you betrayed him. he isn't waiting for you and you shouldn't wait for him.
What that fuck are you doing with someone that's a drug dealer? You should have dumped his sorry ass when he got busted.
hahahahahaha sounds like some real winners...
it's sad that the answer isn't obvious to her.
@Lydia_Lynne@xanga - She led him to sell drugs to someone she didn't know would snitch. It's bad that he was already selling drugs, but she obviously doesn't mind them. Ick.
@kkrriiissyy@xanga - Ah, well then...thank you for clarifying that. I have now lost all of whatever small amount of sympathy I had for her.
your fault
I think people are being too harsh about the selling weed thing. @wizexel22@xanga - I agree that the selling and the relationship are two seperate issues.
That said, though, the reason you shouldn't wait for him is because as you said he shows no love anymore. He's going to prison anyway. Move on with your life! You deserve better. I understand why you cheated, even though it is wrong. If the guy was worth the wait it would be a different story, but sounds like he's not anymore. You'll be so much happier out of the relationship. Good luck & stay strong.
you're an idiot. how is he going to talk to other girls behind your back when he's in prison? the only girls he'll see are......not girls. he might be a girl himself, once he gets on the inside.
Break up so you don't have to watch his things, especially if you know you guys are not going to work out..
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So you cheated on him, and you expected him to cheat on you, and he claimed to have no love for you but only keeping you around to look after his things.
What a nice and lovely and healthy relationship here.
I say you two are completely meant for each other, and should just stick with each other for life so neither of you will go around effing other peoples' lives over. :)
...why would you want to be with someone like this?
Ok so i think the real answer to the girls question is a more important question.... Why do you want to stay with him? Is it because of a major sense of guilt about being the reason he is behind bars? or is it because you feel like there is never going to be another person who means as much to you? if it is the 2nd one the only advice I can give (If he says he is done), is make sure his stuff is cared for and say good bye, find something less dysfunctional. if it is the. If it is the first, tell him how sorry you are about how things ended up and run like hell to the therapist office and beg for the help we all know you need.