Based on personal experience, here's my list of what a guy should never say to his girl...
2) I have never had a girl break up with me.
3) All relationships come to an end.
4) Guys that marry are selling out to monogamy.
5) You can never give me everything I need, so I have to settle to get most of what I need.
6) Just like Chris Rock said, for every hot girl out there, there is a guy who's tired of fucking her.
7) I think I may see my ex this weekend and you are not invited because she may feel uncomfortable.
8) I know this hurts you, I cant tell my Ex that I cant see her anymore because it may hurt her.
9) I've dated hundreds of women and....
10) I don't know if I value you enough to spend money on you.
Are there things YOU think men should keep to themselves?
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11) I think you're fat.
@SodomyClown@xanga - OMG - I didn't get that one. I got - "you are not attractive to me when you are skinny"
@Neverforever - I was in a verbally abusive relationship. That's just one of the highlights.
@SodomyClown@xanga - Good addition. That should really be number one.
What the actual fuck? The girl has issues if she's the one staying around with a guy who even gives the impression he's thinking any of those things. Maybe I'm lucky/my man is extremely abnormal, but nothing like this has ever been my experience. I can't believe guys like this actually exist.
"I don't love you enough to...."
"Well, it was mostly good while it lasted...."
"It's not my fault, she was hitting on me first...."
Verbally abusive vs physically abusive. which is worse? Verbal is more damaging I think. I hope you are out.
7) I think I may see my ex this weekend and you are not invited because she may feel uncomfortable.
such B.S. I use to get this all the time, the i dumped his lousy ass!!! :)
there's a lot of things i think men and women should not say to each other because it shouldn't be said in the first place but we're human and we screw up once in a while. to me, the guy that says those things to his gf is just looking for trouble.
those things sound like something russell brand would say.
11.saying that he thinks another girl is gorgeous. (I think there are gorgeous guys other than him but I don't always point them all out.)
~ I don't see a future between us, but we'll see how it goes.
Crushed.
I try to say all those things all the time... as fast as I can and as much as I can.
Works like a charm.
"Your eyes are the colour of poop."
People should keep this kind of advice to themselves. Unless they want to help the douches keep their already astronomical advantage over guys who have deep hearts and strong minds. But I might say something in sarcasm to remind a woman exactly what kind of asshole she's used to. I can't just snap into the sweet and romantic personality that douches wear as a mask. It takes time to trust someone enough reach that level.
#10 is what i usually think
#3 is really something everyone should recognize about reality: It is in the way of things to end.
Depressing? Yeah. Romantic? Definitely not. Nevertheless, people shouldn't say anything about "forever" either, because they're gearing themselves up for a commitment they can't possibly understand or any amount of affection will ever prepare them for.
But yeah. All the rest of that shit is just plain dickish.
heard # 8
HATE HATE HATE it. but it's ok her immature self pushed him away any way =)
@Dispose_me@xanga - THANK YOU.
i got the 'I've never had a girl dump me..' I was going to, but he dumped me first..Than he dated a girl that he had dated before me & got dumped. =p
"I need a break from seeing you to get excited about being with you again." This was said to me by my ex after I moved to another town to see him and he just wanted to go home and see his friends every weekend. Just one of his many amazing lines. I dumped his ass and I so thankfully my husband is awesome so I never have to worry about being treated that horribly again.
Do people ACTUALLY say these things? Where do these people come from where they have no internal censor whatsoever? Any guy who thinks that is how they will get a girl's attention (good attention) must seriously be out of his mind!
Maybe it's because I am older so these are foreign but if a guy thinks these things, it's time to move on.
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@Babylons_Crowing@xanga - Agreed.
Wow. I have never met a man who would say those to my face. And if he did, he would never see my face again.
I guess respect is a rare quality these days???
my ex once told me- "I almost like you when you're drunk" and "You need to start working out, you used to be skinnier" and number 2 "I've never been broken up with before". he also ditched me on halloween to go to a party with strippers, and he said "I could've lied to you, aren't you glad I decided to tell you the truth?"
Never had a guy that I've dated ever say that to me..O.o that guy doesn't sound like he's over his ex..lol; but if he did then it's over..not dealing with a douche bag..