Does your guy complain that you're smothering him? It's not always your fault. We women get clingy for a reason: when we're feeling insecure about our relationship. If your guy is making you question where you stand with him, it's probably a good time to re-evaluate if this is a healthy relationship for you. But if you feel that the urge to smother is all on your side of the table, check out these 4 ways to kick back, relax and give you both some room to breathe, sister.
1. Initiate plans less. Put down the Blackberry and let your guy call the shots. If he's the one planning dates, he'll feel more manly because he's the one doing to work to woo you (old-fashioned, yes, but true). Don't ask him to hang out every night and pout when he can't; he'll value time with you more when it feels like a fun opportunity as opposed to a chore.
