Thursday, 29 July 2010
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Help! I'm In Love with Someone's GF
Datingish readers, one of your own needs help! jerrywhoo@xanga asked:We had a thing before her current bf but it ended up being too much too soon, so we went our separate ways. We reconnected about a year or so a go, and we've been good friends ever since, but i still think about her.
Have you ever been in a similar situation? What should I do?
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The guy in that picture looks creeeeepy, creepy.
Do nothing. She's happy. Do NOT interfere.
@haloed@xanga - Agreed
Stay clear, even if you still like her. It's only going to cause pain, and the fact if you do interfere then you probably still won't get her in the end. So, don't do anything at all.
Just stay her friend and wait.
Statistically speaking they're almost guaranteed to break up at some point.
If she's happy, it's not your place to interfere. If she's not happy, it'll end eventually, anyway. Just try not to get friend-zoned if that's the case, because it's damn hard to get out of that once you're there. But seriously, if the guy is good to her and she's happy with him, you need to move on. It's not fair to her for you to try something. You do, and it's not really love, it's just selfishness.
-Katie
Stay out of it. It is very likely you will get hurt in a situation because if she does end up liking you, she'll most likely be confused and not stable with you.
Sounds like you had your chance and blew it.
Just leave her alone. Don't ruin her relationship
JESSIE'S GIIIRRL
DON'T DO IT MAN!!
lol if its meant, it'll happen after. but best just to forget about her. lots of fish in the sea.
Find someone else. If you really care about her, don't interfere her relationship with her boyfriend. Telling her just could end up messy and bring a lot of drama between you three.
I can't be good friends with guys that I'm interested in because the sight of him with his gf makes me cringe and I don't want to hear about him talking about his gf either. I just gradually drifted away and soon those feelings faded. I'm quite the immature and jealous type so this is just me. you can still remain friends with her if you can endure it lol don't pursue her or flirt with her.
I think you're free to connect with her as a friend, but you should not imply anything else to someone who has a boyfriend. Be respectful and stay clear, otherwise it'll cause problems for everyone.
GTFO. There is plenty of fish-taco in the food court.
Do not interfere in any way shape or form. Seriously, you'll find someone else. If you had kept in contact the whole time it would have been different, but you weren't a huge part of her life, and she's moved on. Let her relationship run its course without interference from you.