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Don't message the girl saying "hey baby" or "hey sexy" UNLESS the girl is looking for casual sex or an intimate encounter. If she isn't, its just going to annoy her. Why you ask? A girl isn't looking for the guy who calls her baby or sexy within minutes of meeting her. We are looking for the guy who calls us beautiful or says "hey, great profile! i see you like (insert movie, book or music here), and I do too"
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If a girl says that you are not her type, don't take it personally. Every girl (and guy) has a type of person they are attracted to. Regardless of what the percentages are between you two, you may just not be her type. Girls have a way of knowing these things. Learn to handle rejection - its okay. If its meant to be it will be, ok?
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Don't insult a girl just because she rejects you. Really? Do I have to explain? Well I will. If a girl says you aren't her type and then you go back and reject her, what have you just proved? That you are a sad excuse for a "man" who is obviously insecure and can't handle it when a girl says no. Obviously, there was a reason we said no. Brush it off your shoulders and move on to the next girl.
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If a girl has the decency to write you a message or send you a wink, RESPOND! This is a big one. Most of the time, when a girl sends you a message, we are REALLY interested. So if you aren't, at least have the decency to tell us so we aren't just waiting around to hear from you (girls, don't do this either - really.).
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If you can't handle a long distance relationship, don't message someone from out of town. Another big one. If you live 45 minutes from someone and that is too much for you to handle, you really need to suck it up. How do you think military spouses do it? It can be done! And sometimes, its much worse then 45 minutes. Try 8,000 miles! So if you can't handle it, message people within 5 miles.
I think that says it well enough.
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Yeah, I liked this. Oh, and DON'T LIE!
This is amazing. So true indeed.
Absolutly true.
I agree, but I just also want to say that sometimes in online dating. There's the ones that don't even answer or tell you no thanks for your message or what not. Quite rude....no? Seriously I get how everyone has their choice and are more shallow in the online dating world since you go by the picture first then the summaries and what not. But seriously.....at least have the decency to message the person with a "Hey back, no thanks" or something along those lines eh? haha!
Anyways take care!
Truth! Guys always get mad at me because I tell they're not my type or they try to prove otherwise only ending in the same result and then they get salty at me and call me a bitch. No matter what I do, I'm always a bitch! So frustrating...
Some people assume your not their type when you are the type where the qualities they're looking for are most abundant. Just because you don't put up a front. That's why they go through so many relationships before they settle. Or give up looking for a great match altogether.
Great tips! I agree with them all.
On facebook I will get and IM from random guys I went to high school with saying "hey baby (hottie, sexy, etc.)". Even if they are joking, it bugs me.
@deathtemplar@xanga - you know i know its not cool to not reply to a guy, but I dont when someone calls me baby or sexy or whatever lame line they are using, ive had people as me for random hookups who obviously have never read my profile, I am sorry but I may be 'rude' in doing so but I am not going to msg them back
Kudos, kudos. It rings true for me!
@weightjourney2005@xanga - lol well I would agree that people looking for a hook up or calling a girl baby, mami, sexy, etc etc wouldn't really illicit nor deserve a response. But I'm talking about when people don't say that nor are looking for hook ups. Girls should really at least respond with a no, thanks....
Anyways take care!
I couldn't agree more with number 4! I'm trying it now for the hell of it. I think also guys shouldn't get mad when I don't want to meet face to face after talking to him for a day. And he doesn't reveal any information about himself? noooo ._.
4.If a girl has the decency to write you a message or send you a wink, RESPOND!
See, what I get, is girls send me a message first and, on those rare occasions that she's not A) ugly or B) has nothing in common with me, I write back and then they NEVER RESPOND. Don't send me a wink, compliment me on my taste in books, then when I write back trying to get to know you ignore me.