Tuesday, 13 July 2010
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Ask A Guy: The Body Edition
I'm a day behind, but now I am proud to bring you another edition of Ask A Guy!Before I give the typical run down of how this works, I just wanted to let you know that this week is the Body Edition. Have you been thinking about the physical? Want to know more about his body and what he thinks about yours? Ask about anything you want a guy to answer.
We will have our guys of the week answer five of the best questions. What kind of questions are likely to be picked? Ones that don't make guys out to be jerks, ones that are sincere, or other commenters have indicated that would like the answer.
Here is a helpful reminder of how this feature works:
- Every Monday night we are going to put out a post asking you to submit questions that you want answered by a man. The topics can cover anything-- flirting, SO issues, style, meeting boys, first dates, sex, whatever. We will collect these questions until midnight Wednesday.
- Then Friday night we will post the answers from our guy of the week.
Tonight is Tuesday so start asking!
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To guys that are fit: Do you expect your girl to be as active and fit as you?
@femmefatale12@xanga - ah, that's a good one.
When a girl loses or gains like fifteen pounds (as in, her pants size may change, but it's not like she suddenly got obese or emaciated), is it something a guy will really notice, or does it not really make a huge difference in how she looks?
@femmefatale12@xanga - That is a really good one.
@supaflychikn@xanga - That IS a good one.
What is your biggest turn on and your biggest turn off on a woman's body?
@femmefatale12@xanga - So I guess a random guy like me can't answer this question? Goes all to the original poster?
biggest turn on: beautiful face, good body shape, nice vagina, kind heart, sweet and innocent looking, very feminine looking!
biggest turn off: the opposite of biggest turn on
@materialactress@xanga - I just wanted to say I love your hair cut lol it's adorable :)
@rAzOrKisS09@xanga - Aww thank you! =]
Do guys feel insecure about their bodies? What can we do to make you feel more secure about them?
When making out with a girl and going further, what's something a girl has done that you really enjoy?
I want a picture of a real man....not a buff one we never see.
How do guys feel about cellulite on girls? Is it a big turn off? Do you even notice it?
What is a part of your body that you most like touched, other than the penis?
what do guys tend to judge more body or face?
@Katja88@xanga - You know, this isn't my place to answer as I'm not part of this team or whatever, but I do really wanna answer this from my perspective.
I have huge self esteem issues. I hate my body. I feel fat and blah blah blah. I've had anorexic tendencies in the past [and kinda going into it again, but that's not for right here/right now]. But it's kinda interesting when I talk to girls who have self esteem issues. Hear me out, since I'm sure it's not universal. My best friend [who is beautiful, btw] hates how she looks because she doesn't feel like she's as attractive as all those super model type girls. So it seems like her self esteem stems from how she looks in comparison to other girls. Me, on the other hand, since I don't look to compare myself against other guys [guys are gross. I'd make a horrible homosexual!], where could I possibly be getting this... I dunno, comparison feelings? Like, as if, all self esteem just stems from comparing yourself to something else? Well, I just feel like I could look better to me. I don't know if I answered your question about if guys get self consious very well, since I wanted to try comparing how guys get self consious versus how I've noticed girls get self consious.
And to be perfectly honest, I'm not quite sure how to make any guy feel better about their insecurities; since I'm not trying to make myself look better to anyone but myself, I don't want to hear that I look good, or that I'm not fat, or whatever. I DON'T EVEN KNOW. I'M NOT HELPFUL AT ALL.
@Nevando@hardestlevel - You're helpful! It's nice to hear your perspective on it. I wouldn't have thought about self-esteem that way; I'm in the compare-to-someone-else category, being a fairly typical girl. I'd like to hear what some other boys think, too.
For me, it's helped to know how much my boyfriend loves my body. Knowing that helps me appreciate it more myself. I hope maybe some day you can be in a relationship that makes you feel better about yours, or whatever would work for you. If you were here, we'd go swimming together and giggle about having bellies and eventually realize that we're better-looking that 90% of the people on the beach. Maybe that would help. But I do hope you can like your own body more. You're kind of stuck with it.
If a girl was disfigured due to an accident, burn, a birth defect, etc., but everything else about her was a 10, could you look beyond all that?
How do you know a guy is interested in a girl? What signs can we expect to see?
Is it true that "bigger is better" when it comes to boobs, butt, etc.? And why?
Is it a better feeling for the guys if you put it in the ass or the va-jay-jay?
this is super personal. i dont know if you'll answer. but what does it feel like to orgasm as a guy?
@Dama_ThA_LlaMa@xanga - I want to know that too! hahaaha Good Question!
when you been talking to and flirting with a girl for a decent amount of time, what is appropriate for her to do the first time you guys ''hook up'' if her goal is to keep you interested and wanting more? for example, should it just be a kiss? or will you still be equally interested if she lets you see her naked, finger her, etc.?
sorry if this is phrased in a confusing way haha. also, this scenario is assuming that the two of you have never done anything sexual together, even kissing.
If you fall in love with a girl (as in, her mind and soul, etc.) will you still recognize her body flaws or do you just embrace them bc you love her so much?
I wanna be the guy of the week!