Wednesday, 30 June 2010
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Love Is Really Somewhat Annoying
I dedicate this post to those people who have had their hearts broken (Haven't we all?)
When heartbreak comes to you, love feels like a battlefield. Well, in a way, it is true.
When we decide to love, we also sign ourselves up for some heartbreak. Because it WILL happen. No matter how in love you are with your boyfriend (or girlfriend). Relationships aren't always easy, there are temptations, trust issues, even boredom that can ruin a relationship.Love is really somewhat annoying that way.
You can never control who you fall in love with or who your boyfriend or girlfriend falls in love with.
It is something that just happens. We really have no say about it but when they do fall in love with someone else, I understand that it hurts like hell because I have felt this myself a few times. The best thing to do is let them be happy out of love for them.Loving someone who doesn't love you back is painful,
but knowing someone you love is not happy with you is more painfulYes, you probably will cry for a week, or just feel like someone stabs you whenever you think about it, but it is the best and the last thing you can do for someone you love. Because, wouldn't it hurt you more if you know that the ONE person you love isn't happy with you? Of course, it would
The best thing you could do for yourself is not to hold any grudge for them just because they want to be happy with someone else. Move on. Give that tremendous love you have inside your heart to a more deserving and possibly better person. Don't say that I don't understand how hurtful it is to have your heart broken. I do. I have had my world fallen apart because of that. I realize that it takes time but it gets better, slowly the pain will go away. You'll fall in love with someone else and you'll fill your world with other precious experiences.
Somehow I understand the need to get a revenge. To do something just to make their lives miserable. But think again, in the end, what is it gonna be worth? Yes, you'll hurt the guy or the girl (maybe) and then you'll get a little satisfaction, but within that satisfaction, are you truly happy for hurting the one you love just because they want to fight for their happiness?
I once said to my boyfriend that, I would stick up for him as long as I could still make him happy and he still love me. Because what is the point of having someone I could call a boyfriend but he doesn't love me?
And I am going to be with him just as long as we both still love and want each other. Tell me, is that wrong?
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It's not so wrong..we have to fight for love and ourselves in the middle of it. It's not wrong at all.
It's not wrong. It's easy. It's the occasional bits where you find yourself questioning your love for each other, and trying to decide which way to go that's difficult.
"yes you will probably cry for a week." .. a week? the first 3 months were miserable.. the next 6 months had decreasing moments of this miserableness as time went on. rough stuff.
good entry and a good read
It's not wrong,
This was a good entry.
Thank you, and I agree, love is annoying.
love is definitely annoying. i just got dumped on sunday and i don't even really know the reason why it's over because he won't give me the reason.
love doesn't have to be complicated but we make it complicated because we have these stupid rules we try to follow to make it work but in the real sense, we just need to be ourselves and be honest about what we want.
ur absolutely right.. nice read.
good read. the "cry for a week" part was a definite understatement. i cried for six months the first time, started talking to him again only to have my heart broken again, and cried for four more months.
Love doesn't cause heartbreak, people cause heartbreak. You may think you are in love when in reality, you aren't. I believe it is a big error to blame love for betrayed emotions or unhappy relationships, there should be no gray area as to what real love consists of. “Love is a virtue; a world without it is doomed to ruin its future generations and ultimately itself.” (quote by Tapiwa Chitembure). This is what should drive us to try to restore its true value and meaning. Love should always be thought of as a strength, not a weakness.
The meaning of love is growing ambiguous in modern societies; infidelity, dead-ended relationships, divorces, teenage pregnancies, etc. are a growing concern. We need to be exploring the present effects of undermining the value and meaning of love and find solutions to help those who WANT to create meaningful relationships. Instead of blaming love for our failed relationships, we should be trying to figure out why some people are prone to deception and figure out how to avoid being in a relationship that will only waste our time and energy, even though it may appear to “start-off great”.
Justice For Love
I am not in love right now, and I am working on avoiding that crap for the rest of my life. No pain in my ass has been more stinging than a broken heart. Screw that stuff.
this is sound advice.
Love sucks man! I never had a bf though ALL of my crushes broke my heart.... gr! If i were you just be single & satisfied & retired from having crushes & unavailable to pathetic men :P