Tuesday, 29 June 2010
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Bringing Sexy Back? And Keeping it!
When you first meet someone and hop in the sack, it's a combination of exploring someone's new body, their likes and dislikes, and master how to drive them wild. Then once you become more comfortable you start venturing into things like fantasies, sexy places in theory in shack up, and hitting up that Victoria Secret lingerie sale.
Now before I venture into the question, let me save myself a bit of time and explaining and say, My world is fully being rocked. I'm in a relationship where we both know it has long term potential if not, forever potential.
But after you've spent hundreds of dollars on lingerie, hoped in the backseat, the kitchen counter, and any other borderline unsanitary place to have sex, experimented to the point of each others comfort level
How do long term couples keep their sex life hot and heavy?
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Hmmm... toys?
I've never bought sexy lingerie because the guys I've been with think that it's pointless haha. I've never really had issues keeping it hot and what not. But toys do work.
Who says you do?
i dunno, love sorta seems like enough. sure we do crazy things once in a while, but it doesnt have to be upside down and backwards EVERY time...
Be creative. or better yet, be inventive ;)
Keeping "the sex" alive is all about doing it, often! I read an article in Cosmo as well as discussed with some couples about the contents. The article says that you can keep the sex going by doing it often. Don't make it mandatory to do it daily but keep it regular because humans are creatures of habit and if sex is a habit it will keep on keeping on.
Weird advice but it makes sense.
and on a side note: I've tried sexy lingerie once and turns out my hubby isn't into it, he's more au natural.
I think the lingerie works for some girls. Like the one in that picture.
I mean, damn.Can I get a double on that girl in the picture? hahahaha =X
But uh....you can always get the Kama Sutra and go at it lol ;D I honestly don't know what else to say. But you can try what the others have said....toys
Anyways take care!
kama sutra isn't all about sex positions, it includes (a considerable share on) how to treat your husband/wife, plus some moral values. a very important point (from the book) is the sensational sex should be exclusively for the one and only one whom you have chosen.
well, i guess guys may not need it hot every time. if all the time it's hot, then he won't feel it's hot. i mean, when he hasn't had it not hot, how would he value the hot ones?
Easy: lather, rinse, repeat. If you haven't worn a sexy little number in awhile, dust it off and throw it back on one night. If you haven't had sex in the kitchen in some months, jump him in the kitchen one day when he isn't expecting it. Or put a new spin on an old twist, has it been awhile since the kitchen fiasco? Wear a school girl outfit (or any other costume that your guy likes) and serve him dinner one night, it'll be hard for him to finish without jumping you first. It is really simple..
It's weird, because I've always worried about this. I was with my man for almost three years and the one thing that stayed strong throughout it all was our sex lives. Man, we had the best sex ever. And it wasn't even anything that crazy. No toys, no KY, no kama sutra. We alternated between a few different positions, and just learned how to please each other. It was always heated, passionate, and romantic. Not sure if it will be like that with other guys, but it was quite easy to keep the sexy in our relationship. ;)
By putting an effort into it, lol.
not having sex too often makes you want each other more and makes the sex more exciting. i wouldn't see my boyfriend for over a month because i was away at college, then we'd have sex and damnnnn it was absolutely amazing! you get that first time rush and butterflies all over again
@kaitlyn_anne_g@xanga - But not having sex for a month sucks. And not in the good way.
As people have said, toys are a nice addition. It's pretty fun if the both of you just go to the store anyways, regardless if you buy anything.
spontaneity. it's about bringing that excitement back. new books and toys help.
Toys, spontaneity, and since we're long-distance on some visits we actually set aside a huge slot of time to just go at it til neither of us can walk straight lol.
I'm married...we share more fantasies...they sort of come out over time. New toys every so often. New places to do it...new positions....trying different kinds of sex (for example, oral & manual only, tantric sex, etc...) Sometimes we won't have sex for a little while so that that urge and need builds up overtime until it just explodes. Sexy weekends away (for us, preferably to a trashy Motel 6 where we pretend to be a prostitute and customer or stuff like that)...sexy movies...the list is endless...it just takes effort.
I like lingerie. I know i have a great body, but lingerie makes me feel really sexy. My SO likes it too. We've only been together 6 months, and this is going to sound corny, but for me it still feels like the first time everytime. But handcuffs are always a plus! ;D