Yup, that's right buddy. I deleted you from my BBM. Cya never!
After a break-up, I like to do two things -- get a haircut and purge the sucker from my life. The first one is easy. "Make me blonder and sexier." My hairdresser always knows what I need. The second thing, however, is not so easy. Especially with Facebook, g-chat, BBM, etc.
I remember the good 'ol days when I could rip up a few pictures and delete a phone number, and my ex would be gone faster than a bowl of ice cream in front of my dad. But now I actually have to have a debate with myself whether or not I should go back through all of my tagged Facebook pictures and DE-TAG the ones of us together. That could honestly take hours. Hours that I'm not sure I'm willing to spend on him, at least anymore.
How do you delete someone from your life when reminders of them are everywhere you look and on so many different mediums? Do you delete all of your past g-chat histories, old emails? Do you delete of your ex's friends on Facebook? (yes, I was once de-friended by my roommate's ex. Honestly, it hurt.)
A couple years ago, I would be asking the question, do you delete an ex's phone number after a break-up or keep it around just for good measure. But now I find myself asking, just how far do you go to remove someone from your life? Do you spend on the hours it takes on Facebook/MySpace/etc just to get closure?
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Hide him or her from your FB news feed, and unsub their blog. Unfriend on Myspace... its myspace, for God's sake. Delete their number from your phone, and move on with your life. There's no need to untag the pictures. It doesn't make the pictures go away, and you can't pretend those times didn't happen. Don't unfriend every single one of his/her friends... you'll cause a lot of uncessary drama, and those people might actually be your friends too. Part of having a relationship means being part of a relationship web... unless the friends are acting nasty, one broken strand doesn't mean the whole web needs to be torn apart.
I keep all that stuff around. All the pictures still tagged, numbers intact, comments and emails still there. It will be meaningful one day.
depends on how the break up happened. I remember once I broke up with a person and because of the reasons, I disconnected in every way I could think of. Took them off my instant messengers, off Facebook, MySpace, out of my phone, everything.
In other break ups, because I either still wanted to be with the person or because I wanted to at least keep a friendship between us, I kept them on my stuff. Now most of the time, they ended up taking me off their stuff, but sometimes they kept the door open as well, and with time we were able to reconnect and be friends. Not always as close, but still on good terms.
I usually don't do anything.
I can't make myself delete all the pictures of my first boyfriend and I, even though we've been broken up for two years...i hid her from facebook. i should have deleted it, but i dont see the point anymore since I dont ever visit her page. All her messages and her phone number are all gone. I have yet to see her in person but I don't have anything to say to her so I dunno. Oh well we'll see when we see each other
i just delete everything, pictures, fb, anything that reminds me of him. what's the point of keeping around things that just make you dwell on the heartbreak.
I keep the number on my phone and important emails but delete everything else. Pictures, texts, letters/notes, msn chat logs, and I hide their news feed stories on FB.
I just remove them from my News Feed on Facebook. Nothing else needed.
I deleted every text message after I got home (after we broke up). Then I proceeded to put everything and anything that he gave me or reminded me of him into a box and pushed that box underneath my bed. Then .. I tried to delete all the e-mails ..... but I couldnt bring myself to delete all .. only a few. I eventually went back and deleted them ... little by little .. I actually deleted all but one today. The box of shit is still in my room .. and I don't know what to do about it .. because I may look back on it and smile .. or it may just torture me for a while. Deleted all the photo albums immediately because he asked me to. Within the next few months, he untagged every single picture we were ever in together.....I didn't defriend him on facebook, but I deleted him from my AIM buddy list a few weeks later and from my oovoo friends list a few months later. Still have his cell and house phone memorized though. Ugh.
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If your ex is deleted from your heart, then all the other stuff (and even your ex) can stick around without it meaning very much.
De-tag? What, do you look at all your pictures every day?
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