Saturday, 19 June 2010
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My Boyfriend is a Rockstar!
Well, not yet.. but he could end up being one!He just released his first single and it's very exciting! But to me it is, but it's also very scary!
I have complete trust in him, and we're very much perfectly in love. I'm just afraid of how things are going to change in our daily life. It may not be a hit at all, but if it does, how do I deal with the fans--specially the female ones? I'm sure he'll be just fine. But I'm afraid I'll become jealous if it gets out of control.
I've never had a huge fan crush on a male actor or singer, my room was not covered with their posters. So, I don't know how a regular teenager or older person reacts when they love a famous person. I personally am happy when I find out that some of my favorite actors or singers are in a relationship or is having a kid, but, I know some fans can over react and fanaticism a bit too much!
How would you handle this, how would you prepare? If you want to have a chat let me know!
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I have friends that were married to major rock stars...it can be a challenge. The both of you just have to work to keep your relationship good. Be open and honest when things come up and willing to work on issues....just like with any other relationship.
You have to trust that he loves you completely and is faithful to you always. :)
No one else really matters.
If it changes, it will be much much harder for you, but as long as you're both willing to keep working on your relationship and keeping loving each other..then what could go wrong?
I saw this kind of thing happen on Rock Star. You know Mark Wahlberg's movie? If ever I had a rockstar date, I'd pay a bit of attention to that movie to learn the ins and outs. Haha! In the meantime, you just have to trust your man to come back home to you, that's all. Que sera sera.
you'll be surprised how many singers actually married someone they knew b4 they were famous. but i'm not sure about ROCK singers. they're kind of known for doing groupies. i have been in love with singers but i don't know their personalities & when i look at it, you're probably better for him cuz you know him whereas a fan just knows his looks & music. many should realize that. unless they're young & crazy.
I work with very gifted musicians who have released CDs and singles. Some have been featured in TV shows and movies; others have gone on mini tours. But it has taken all of them a very long time to get to even this level of "fame".
Yuca - I work with the bassist
Red City Breakout - The lead singer is like a brother to me
Zaac Pick - Very gifted musician...he works in the rental department of the store I work at.
Now, when I say I work with, I do not mean manage or gig with. I mean I work in a retail store, and struggle with them each day to pay the bills.
This being said, from a slightly jaded perspective, though I wish your boyfriend all the best in the music industry, unless he's getting signed with a large label you shouldn't have to worry too much about the "rock star" status for awhile yet.
Enjoy your time with him, and support his aspirations as a musician.
I would say just keep being open and honest with each other. Keep your line of communication open.
I wouldn't want to date a rockstar since even Christian singers have groupies...
@mycontinuity@xanga - That's sad that they do....
my boyfriend's a really talented musician as well, and even when we were just friends there were always girls interested in him. sometimes people don't know we're dating and they'll say stuff to me about thisgirl thinking that or whatever, but i think... you have to learn to laugh at all the girls, if there are any. if you and your so really love and trust each other, you'll make it work... he'll make sure that you know that you are the only woman in his life and you'll be able to better support his new rockstarship :)
You just need to trust him. I dated a guy in a local band and I even had doubts in him because he was going on tour this summer. Liked him a lot, we were great together, but apart, we both had so many insecurities. We ended up splitting because of them. And the fact everyone else got in our relationship. We said if we worked on our trust, we would have been great. But, neither of us did. Maybe in the future.
Well, I hope he's strong-willed and sure of himself. And, for your sake, I hope he's madly in love with you. I've dated two 'rockstars' before (read; two famous musicians) and also dated another guy whose band was getting big. And, well....let's just say that the word 'relationship' means nothing to them. I speaking generally, of course. There are those who are decent and honest. I hope you have one of those guys :)
The best thing for you to do is just to talk to each other about your hopes and your concerns. With any luck, you'll ride over the groupies and whatnot and have a long, fulfilling relationship.
That being said, don't be overly surprised if - after a few months (especially if they become really big) - that you end up disappointed or hurt. Just sayin'.
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