Is datingish getting this desperate for posts?

Dear Emotionally Unavailable Ex,

Thank you. Thank you for teaching me the value of a heart, and for showing me nothing is worse than giving it away only to get it back in pieces. Thank you for making me finally feel safe; like I belonged somewhere, like I was worth loving -- and for making me strong when you snatched it all away. Thank you for every moment we spent laughing, talking, kissing and holding each other, and thank you for every tear I've cried since you walked away, because all those tears have formed a moat around my heart, encased like a fortress. The drawbridge is up and the alligators are biting. Which means that the next guy is going to have to fight to get to it. And while I know it will make future relationships much more difficult to be successful, I know that in the end, the right man will be the man who fought against all the protection that your actions caused me to create, and who never gave up, despite how difficult it may have been. He will be the man who is worthy of me, because he fought to keep me.

I will never regret our relationship or the time we spent together. I can honestly say that I loved you with all of my heart. You taught me more about love than I could have ever dreamed, and I wouldn't trade any of that, despite the pain I've been living in without you. I know that beneath the cold exterior and the angry words, is the heart that loved me, and the man I fell in love with the day we met. He's still there, and while part of me still hopes that you will find that man again, and in time, you will return, I know that the things that have happened since our goodbye will never be able to be erased, and that there will always be a distance between our hearts. I am sorry for everything, and I wish there was some way for us to bridge this distance and forgive each other. But the damage has been done. That will be my only regret; the way our relationship had to end.

Thank you for the time we shared together--the memories we created. Those can never be replaced, because they are priceless and impossible to recreate. I will miss you for as long as I live, because those pieces of my heart you handed back? Well, you forgot one, and now I am without it, because it is with you, wherever you go, despite all that has happened. Go ahead and keep it--I don't want it back, because even if I had it, nothing would ever be the same.

I wish you the best in life, and with everything you do. Even though you don't believe it, you are so talented, and have so much more potential than you think. You will do amazing things, if only you open up your heart and trust in yourself, and in the people who care about you. Stop pushing the world away, because no one deserves to be alone in this world. I believe in you, always.

Love,
Allyson

P.S. Id really like my shirt back. Thanks. 

**sooo...I kind of took this a little differently. I started writing like a bitter ex girlfriend who had been hurt and betrayed, and as I wrote, my true feelings came out. I wasn't going to post this comment, but I changed my mind because I want the truth to be heard...even if he won't hear it.

Thanks for treating me like I'm 10 when I was acting perfectly grownup and not crazy.

Thanks for taking all of your racist shit out on me, but it's really me (like everything else), and now I'm afraid of dating black people and kind'of afraid of them in general and having issues.  Nothing against you personally, but how to deal with the reverse argument and think about it.

Thanks for abandoning me over and over again.  I know I'm not worth it but neither are you!  I me wish that insolar males would get this through their heads.  You got me for a reason.  Look around, it isn't getting any better. 

I'm now married to my cat.  He's the only one who understands me. 

All four points kind of say the same thing. I'm not just being a guy here; they, uh... they all can be paraphrased in pretty much the same way.

Either way, all this says is that either (1) you have somehow been unable to end any one of your relationships gracefully, or (2) you repeatedly date the wrong kind of person.

And, @presque_la@xanga: seconded.

@phuck_diz_shiz@xanga - same here..

i have nothing bad to say about my ex. (thank god)

@presque_la@xanga - yeah, these latest posts have seem sooooo....unworthy to talk about.

@SupperMick@xanga -  quiet as kept this post wasn't supposed to end up here, i didn't submit it for this, but it's whatever.

Some of these would be a lot more appropriate on billboards...with names and faces.

hmmm if it's an ex that I am still friends with - well I treat her as a friend of coruse, wishing her no harm... if it's an ex that I don't want to see ever again, I just ignore her... I see no point in in thinking negative thoughts about ex girlfriends, I prefer to focus on my current one...

I think it's sad that you're so angry about your ex(es). I don't know if anyone could have possibly had as awful/dramatic of a breakup as I last had (it was soap opera worthy), and STILL I have nothing that bad to say.

I would say something more along the lines of... I'm sorry things didn't work out, you were my best friend, I will always care about you even if we won't always love each other, and I truly wish you happiness and health in the future.

And I mean every word.

@Allyson_Singsxo@xanga - this totally could have been written by me. right down to the "P.s.". Honestly, thank you for speaking my heart! <3 

@wonderchica22@xanga - awww :) I'm glad I could put your heart into words. and that bites. dumb boys - I thought only girls were supposed to steal boys' clothes, not the other way around haha.