Here's the thing to remember... if a man really likes you, he'll give you that chance to explain. You won't have to beg for it. This guy may have been on board in the beginning. But if you did come across like you had little time for him + always had some issue + frantically texted messaged him, I think it's safe to say he's done.
It sucks and you're gonna kick yourself and re-play everything in your head. But you have to let yourself off the hook and move on and learn from this. Not just because you're not doing your self-esteem any favors but because... it's not all about you. Yes, your feelings matter. But so do his. From his perspective, he gave you many chances. Now he's done and he doesn't want to deal with any fall out.
Read original postHas a guy you feel for neglected to give you a chance? What did you you do to hurt him?
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I think that guy didnt want that chick from the original post because she is long winded and annoying as shit.
@wonderchica22@xanga - i agree, i couldnt even read down past 3 sentences...
yea....I broke up with my ex-boyfriend and flipped out on him, and then begged him for a second chance. He gave it to me, but I could tell that I had really hurt him, so I left him alone for a week or two. We're still broken up, which is fine because we both prefer being single anyway, but our relationship is much better. I see him once or twice a week, and I love our time together now.
ugh. what a terribly written post. It's like rant about someone's own sad personal life.
I give second chances... hell, ive given 3rds/4ths(never for cheating tho, mainly over dumb shit).. but each time I care less and less to the point where its more of an experiment(in which i get to have sex until it eventually goes to shit again) than a relationship. Nothing like that one LAST chance tho... and the other person getting SUPER pissed like how DARE you not forgive me.
weird symbiotic shit I just dont do anymore... then again, i am infamously into crazy girls.
yeah this ones hard for me, for boys and girls. because for me im more light and things roll over quickly, and im just a fast mover and dont take things personally. while other people can be quite different and ive had problems and honestly dont even care anymore because i tried and the only thing stopping them is their pride and ego and its no longer my problem. so when i hear any of those people bitch, i honestly dont care and just feel bad for them because they're letting their ego and pride run their lives, and thats just sad.
I don't give second chances.