Tuesday, 08 June 2010

  • You Want a "Good Man", Not a "Nice Guy"

    Hear me out in this one.

    Whenever I think of both the women who complain about the nice guy, and the ones who talk about them, I wonder if the girls are aware they might be using the wrong terms for what they want. To me, I think that the man that they are really looking for is a good man, not a nice guy.

    What I keep noticing sometimes is that when you are single and looking for a guy who sweeps you off your feet, some people constantly asks for the nice guy, when you really mean the good man. The nice guys are shy, and aims never to piss off to offend the woman in anyway, therefore getting no significant rises to make yourself interesting. The good man is a fair balance who knows his role as a man and as a lover. He's assertive, logical and fair with his love. He doesn't mind hurting or even crying for the love he has, but he also has the strength to stand back on his own two feet afterwards.

    When he is in love, you can bet that his heart is yours and vice versa for keeps. He understands that when you want love, you don't want the guy who goes ridiculously overboard and smothering with his love. Just enough to assure you that the love is real. If by chance the love doesn't seem to go right, then he will do what he can to talk about it with his girl, assuming she wants to talk about there being an ending.

    If you want to be treated like a queen, the good man doesn't mind doing that, as long as you both don't expect it or take him for a doormat. Not to mention, the good man doesn't mind the offer to lay it down when he gets the chance, but he knows that in order to keep the attention and the heart of his loved one, he has to do more than use his bed skills to further convince you that he is the right and sensible choice.

    Basically, the good man has a backbone, knows what he wants out of life, is both nice and naughty, and is capable of treating you with the respect you deserve. Not all of them are exactly romantic or like the Stepford husband, but a good man does his part in love and in life to keep you satisfied. Basically, the good man is a little more well-adjusted.

    So, the next time you are looking for a date, remember those two words. (Hopefully, this puts to rest the situation and talk of the aforementioned nice people.)

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