Monday, 07 June 2010
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Getting to Know You: Those Three Special Words
Who said "I love you" first? Give us all the deets. Was it romantic? Stuttered? In the midst of sex? (yeah, that happened.) Let's hear it...
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I said it first. I was falling asleep in his arms. He said it back but waited till the morning to shake me awake and confirm it. <3
I thought it was pretty cute.
With my current boyfriend, he said it first. Over text. And he was drunk. "i love you so much...and thats not just the booze talkin" But all classlessness aside, we already knew we loved each other, so I didn't mind.
We were long-distance at the time and had been officially dating for almost 4 months. It was my birthday, and we'd spent the evening together and went to a nice pond/park near my house. We sat on the picnic table by the water and fountain. It was really nice summer weather, It was getting dark out and my boyfriend was sitting on the table with me, playing his acoustic guitar.
Afterwards, we started kissing for a while and he stopped and pulled away and looked into my eyes. He seemed nervous and was like "Kaitlyn - - - I love you." I told him I loved him too and meant it. The feelings at that exact moment were indescribable and we had the most amazing and passionate kiss. Sigh.. haha. It was wonderful. :) We're no longer long-distance. We plan to get engaged and married.
my SO said it first. it was a month into dating and it was his first relationship so idk what it means? lol. it was under the stars and we are cuddling on a blanket.
but i know the first time we said it and meant it was at a tiesto concert=D that time i said it first. it was 6 months into it
fml.
I remember that I was soo afraid to say it in person. We both wrote it, and I think he wrote it first. Saying it out loud was so much harder. We were sitting in his, just cuddling and talking and listening to music (we were seventeen) and there was a long moment of silence and I just whispered, "I love you," while my heart my pounding; I was so scared. He said it back and he kissed me. It was actually really adorable and romantic looking back on him... kind of makes me miss those days a lot.
He said it first. We were 17 and it was on the phone. We talked on the phone for hours after hanging out each night. This time it was quiet and after a couple of minutes he said "Have I told you I loved you?" I didn't know what to say back, actually looking back on it I'm kind of embarassed at myself. lol My heart was pounding and my voice box was jammed, so the only thing I said was "No." because he said it in a form a question and he didn't say I love you yet so that was my answer. His was "Okay." it ended up being a really awkward phone call that night, however we were over it at school the next day.
I've come to learn - don't say it. It'll just come back and slap u in the face later.
he casually mentioned it a few times, "I<3you" and such, but I was the first to officially say "I love you."
We were cuddling under the stars.
My husband said it first. This was about, geez, I think it was 4 years ago and I was seeing someone else. We had this whole unrequited love thing going on and he'd been waiting for me to be available and willing to see him for two years (it was sweet, not creepy. He would call me and find out how I was doing and say things like, "If he's what makes you happy, then I have to live with that. I just hope that one day, I can be the he in that equation."). So he called me one night and we talked on the phone for 8 straight hours and he told me, "There's a reason I take you so seriously." and I asked him what the reason was and he said, "This is something I shouldn't say because you're dating the friend of my best friend, but I have to tell you. I'm in love with you." and it was staggering and my heart pounded and two weeks later we were together. And now, 4 years later, we've just celebrated our one year anniversary. :)
He told me over the phone first..(as I suspected he was always in love with me O.o go figure) and i waited until I was absolutely sure that I felt the same. Then I told him that I loved him back =) Had to make sure I felt the same for him...and I realized I did.
I usually end up saying it first. And it's usual 30 seconds prior to ejaculation. If that sounds crude, sorry. I'm only half joking. To be honest though, I think most couples mutually know when they are in love. You just know, right. Those awkward 'one person saying it and the other standing there in silence' moments only happen to weirdos and cranks.
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my so's always say it first. and i never mean it, but say it back just the same. the onlt rime i;ve said it first, the cards were reversed though and it hurt like a bitch...i can't put anyone through that, even if i don;t love them.
When he said "I Love You" the fact was talked about. We were actually purposely dodging it because it was too soon to say something like that, and even if it wasn't meant romantically, those three words can mess with your head. Eventually he said it, just in conversation, and I knew he meant it. He even discussed his unsurety to an extent... we had only started to get to know eachother for the past month, but everything clicked. We were always on the same page. Not only did I know I could tell him anything and everything, but I WANTED to. We both didn't really know if what we were feeling was romantic, since a step like that would have been premature. I know he loves me though. Even for the short time we've known eachother, even though he's going to be gone for the next two years, I know without a doubt that he cares for me so deeply, and has loved me more selflessly than anyone I've met. It's an "I Love You" that probably doesn't meet the expectations of the world, but it's the truest I've ever heard it declared.
He said it first. We were long-distance at the time. He came to visit me once a week or sometimes every other week. He said that made him realize how much he loved me and wanted us to be together forever. But...he didn't tell me until the end of his visit. But I could tell throughout the whole evening that he wanted to tell me something. And he hinted at it a couple times. We were walking back to his car and he was getting very nervous. He stopped me on the sidewalk, looked at me, hugged me, and then....started walking again. I was a little disappointed. Then a couple blocks before the parking garage where his car was he stopped me again, looked at me, smiled that adorable smile of his, and very nervously told me that he loved me. For knowing it was coming I was still shocked to hear it from him. So shocked that I couldn't say it back until a couple minutes later. haha we kissed, hugged and walked back to his car. and that's that. We have now been together for almost 11 months. but we've been seeing each other for a year and 3 months.
hmmm. the first time i said it out loud, I wasn't saying it to anyone but myself. he was asleep and I whispered it, just to test it out; see what it felt like on my lips. I got goosebumps and my heart was pounding, and then I knew I meant it.
It turns out he was awake, and he heard me, and when he called me on it, I feigned innocence. haha so we danced around it for a couple weeks, and one night we were walking and he was like "Isn't it funny that we both feel the same way, but we're both too afraid to say it?" I just looked at him and smiled, and he kissed me.
That night, we were laying in bed, getting ready to go to sleep, and I just said his name. He looked at me and asked me what was wrong, and I said nothing, because nothing was wrong. Then I just looked at him for a minute and he was staring back at me and I bit my lip and just kinda blurted it out and looked away really fast. I could feel my face turning red, and he was quiet for a minute and then I started to freak out thinking I'd completely misread him, but he tipped my chin up to make me look at him, kissed me and said "I love you too."
happiest moment of my life. too bad it died. c'est la vie.
He said it first and it was after a serious fight. But I agree with the previous poster, actions speak louder than words and sometimes people can tell if a person is interested in them.
in all of my relationships or shits the other did first.
We were in our HS hallway next to a garbage can chatting about our lives. he opened up to me about his sister's pregnancy and how he doesnt want me going out with my ex because he was much older. Then he said he loved me..but I was confused if it meant I love you in a sister way.
He said it first. We are long distance and he isn't visiting for a few weeks (we started the relationship long distance). We had just had a serious conversation the previous night and we were talking online until he asks if he could talk to me on the phone. I said okay and he goes "I am in love with you" over the phone. He explains he wanted to wait until we saw each other, but it couldn't wait. :)
My now husband said it first, we had just met lik a week before and wasnt dating or anything. I didnt like him at all and we were on the computer and the conversation went exactly like this. [He was being really weird prior, and he didnt do drugs just the way he was acting]
Me: Are you high?
Him; No, I just love you alot and think you are the most amazing girl I've ever met.
Hahaha
I said it first. He said something to make me laugh and at the end of it I said "Oh, I love you" and he said "What?" to which I said "You heard me." and he said "I love you too." and we kissed. It was sweet.
I kinda said it first :) we were texting and it was only two weeks after I confessed my feelings for him, but the feelings were so strong that I knew I love him. So I was like "I don't want to sound like a creep and it's probably too soon to tell you this, but I'm in love with you. You're like everything I've ever wanted <3" He replied with "I feel the same, I've been trying to find the guts to tell you but couldn't." It was really sweet, I was really happy. Then 2 days later, we were on the phone and out of nowhere he said "Hellen, I need to tell you something." So I said what, then nervously he said "well, uhm... -exhale- it's really hard for me to say this since I'm really shy, but I love you." I was so shock that he just said it out of nowhere, I was completely speechless. I kinda choked on the water I was drinking, but I was so shock that I didn't know what to say. I kinda just changed the subject, then the next night we were on the phone again, and I said "You said something last time, and I didn't say it back. So here it goes, I love you" When I said those three words, I shuttered xD He simply said I love you too, but I can tell he smiled when he said it, even though we were on the phone. Now we're happily engaged :D
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