Monday, 31 May 2010
I met this guy last year and we’ve been talking every single day for a whole year non-stop. I was there for him coping him through with his loss of friends, his lost relationships, and his broken heart. I even started to like him at some point and I nearly loved him until he got another girlfriend. Right then I thought “how could you be in love with someone who falls all over the place?”
After when he and his girlfriend broke up, I thought it would’ve been a good time to tell him with the little bit of feelings I still had that I use to like him. When I told him, it was like he was shocked like he was saying to himself “this girl liked me and I didn’t even notice. How could I be so stupid?”
But then all the sudden all these feelings he didn’t have for me were suddenly there. I couldn’t listen to any love songs because he thought I was listening to them to remind me of him. We couldn’t have any regular conversation because he will always end up telling me how much liked me and how he can see us as a couple. I guess he didn’t hear me out when I told him I use to like him. So I had to tell him again.
I just told him that I don’t go backwards for anybody, and that when my feelings are gone there’s no way that they are coming back. And that I would rather date someone I don’t know but want to get to know to which he replied “he would have to catch your attention pretty quickly then or you wouldn't bother with him”
It's not that I wouldn’t bother with him. I just don’t bother with those who never wanted to bother with me until afterwards.
Have you ever been in this situation?