Sunday, 30 May 2010
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The Little Black Book: Women Have Them Too!
Today I went to the cinema with one of my best male friends, and although the film scared me so much, I had a really nice time. Nicole, my flat mate, was having a girls night in watching chick flicks with our girl friends from another flat. When I got back they were talking about chick flicks and how true to life they AREN'T. This we all knew already, but the conversation soon turned to the guys we had spent the first year of University with - and how none of them were romantic or really worth it in the end.
We moved into the kitchen with champagne and cocktails to have some more girly talk and decided to make a "little black book" full of all the guys we had paid attention to in the first year, mainly for laughs...
Anyway, it was SUCH a good idea because it made me realize that I haven't met a guy this year that really cares for me the way I wanted them to. Some of them I didn't have high hopes for, but most of them I thought something may happen with and it just didn't.
We're going to carry it on throughout the three years we're here for (including holidays) as a sort of time-capsule, and so when we all find our "prince charming's" we can look back at all the frogs we kissed along the way.
I would also like to add that we aren't the kind of girls that have a different man back every night. We respect ourselves and this was mostly for fun :)So I was wondering, does anyone else keep a little black book like this, and is it a good idea, or is it just living in the past?
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I wasn't aware there was such an official term for... writing down memories? I don't, really. I keep the memories worth having in my head, and the rest filter out. I guess IMO if I need a book to reassure me that I'm with the right person, then... I'm probably not with the right person :p
not to hate on the idea though. i can see how it might be a cute idea.
i do have a list of boys i kissed, nut jus so i remember i guess.
its not very long. i guess cos im only 17 and im not a whore
i currently have a boyfriend i love very much, the list doesnt effect it at ll
That kind of stuff is fun, especially with good friends. :)
I don't have a book, but if I did it wouldn't be that long lol
A friend of mine does... and it's like 9283479837 pages.I don't keep a little black book..who would? It happened..it's over and done with...now gotta move on =) memories belong in your head..
I call it my blog. =P
I have lots of keepsakes about guys of the past.. it's hilarious to read them several years later. Many of these diaries began since sixth grade.
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It's basically like keeping a journal of exes. lol. I keep all my exes(or at least most in my journal).
this sounds sorta fun. i may have to blog about it sometime.
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@lifeisfortheliving@xanga - hehe i have that list, too!! mine's getting a big long, though...i'm 25, haha. it gets harder and harder to keep track. but keep it up, it's fun in the end!
Mine would just be in my head. I prefer to keep things to myself when it comes to romance.
Mm, interesting... One of my close friends has taken to calling me "triple b," "black book b" (my name starts with a b), for this very reason. I don't keep a little black book, and, personally, I don't pride myself on the amount of boys I have had flings with or had been interested in. However, my blog would be the closest thing to it... only because it is a secret to all of my friends/acquaintances.
@JennyGee@xanga - ahah yeah im glad i starte it.
im not wanting it to get longer currently though, cos i love mah boyyy