Monday, 24 May 2010
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Date & Mate: Filters in Love, Romance, & Relationships
What you wouldn't do in business, you shouldn't do in romance too.
Would you choose a business partner just because they're hot? or rich? or would you put more weight for reasons such as ethics, personal characteristics, values, and ideology? and whatever you choose, are you willing to bet your life and future on it?
Would you be better with the person or without? Is the partnership and pairing sustainable? How does the other person handle money, in spending and savings...as a reflection of their life? how do they behave in the process of making profit, or in situations of loss or responsibility? are they a sharer, giver, taker, weasel, or lion? do they have integrity and keep their promises? are they consistent? what's their breaking point? would you trust them with all your resources, your will, to make decisions for you in the event of incapacitation?
Would you hedge bets on winning as a team? how are you different together versus apart? do the things you do together make any difference? for better or worse? are your weakness/strengths different or the same? what percentage of volatility, risk taking, and pay off are you willing to accept? how do you balance your portfolio? am i talking about business and investments or relationships? are you reading my sentences or just skimming? how would the both of you generate revenue to sustain your life and relationship? would you be able to handle each other's taxes and maintenance costs...friction generated from being in long term and close contact with each other?
These are the things I should ask myself,
and I tell myself that...
if you gain the ability to control your emotions,
to hold steady and control your impulses,
relationships are made up of logical choices,
like investments,
the choices you make with people
can leave you empty or carry you through
the rest of your life's journey.
So how do you choose people? In ways that matter or don't? (as I once have, and am prone to doing from time to time...)
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this is how my dad wants me to choose a partner. and having an educational background in accounting/finance, i can totally relate to these questions. although, you can't expect every mergers will result in good chemistry. sometimes what seems to be a bad company at that time can turn around in the future and become an amazing investment.
i choose based on feelings, not on what they can provide for me.
that may change when i get older and realize i need more than love to survive in this world.. but who knows
when ur young, is all about feelings and the looks
but
when ur older, is all about financial stability and personalility
unfortunately, people tend to be more superficial and horny than make wise decisions after major critical thinking of all these other important factors that you mentioned.
I know that I place a lot of emphasis on ethics, moral, and integrity. Of course, some other variables involved as well too.
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its tough sometimes because when you see someone that looks compatible I sometimes fall for the thought they are compatible. I like the ones that can make the best out of any situation, have a good time no matter what, when its slow at work or just watching TV (if we're talking about both work and pleasure). Yeah ethics, morals, ideals, etc all matter. But out look on life, goals, and the ability to make life enjoyable - is always attractive...
You've made some very good points. I wish I could be that logical in face of love.
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