Monday, 17 May 2010
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You MADE Me Sleep with Your Boyfriend!
I have FRIEND A who talks a lot about what goes on in the bedroom with her and her SO. And I mean everything: size, rhythm, positions. She brags about it often. So, it has come out that FRIEND B slept with him and her excuse was that “you made me sleep with your boyfriend!” Somehow, FRIEND B understood all these intimate conversations as a gesture to “try him out. You tell me about great shoes and I go out and buy it. How else am I supposed to know if your SO is really that good?”
I was shocked at first but then I started to realize: maybe FRIEND B is right? Would bragging only make your friends curious and wonder? (even though they should never do the deed)…
Do you tell your friends about your dirty details? If you do, will you stop now? Does the boyfriend have any blame in this? Maybe I need new friends?
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I'm sorry.... but Friend B is stupid.
Um.....what?
Sex is a two person decision (excluding rape, obviously). No one can make you sleep with anyone else as it IS a two person decision. Besides that, if you were listening to a prisoner of war recollection on how they were tortured, would you interpret that as "I should go try this" or use common sense to deduct that they are speaking of personal experiences they feel the need to share. Frankly, if your S.O. is willing to cheat on you with someone else, are they even worth keeping around? You can always say no, and you can always say yes, it is a matter of personal choice.
@laytexduckie@xanga - I agree completely.
I get what you're saying and I completely agree.
I don't talk up my boyfriend or my relationship cause there are plenty of jealous bitches just waiting to move in on your man.
maybe you need new friends.
@supaflychikn@xanga - lol yea in addition to that they need to find better b/f's
wtf?
Um, really? Friend B sounds like a total and complete moron.
I'm flattered that my friends are comfortable to share those things with me but I'd rather they didn't.
It's not just Friend B, the boyfriend is also at fault.
lol, I knew i had to read this. "Mind Fuck Approved"
@laytexduckie@xanga - True. She's as easy as she is stupid.
@Lady_Kelacy@xanga - Yea, she realized he wasn't worth it to keep around either.
@WordsandThoughts@xanga - Me too! I don't talk mines up either b/c "those bitches" always want what they see as good. Especially, if they're romantic and treat you well, they want him for themselves instead of only being happy for you.
@supaflychikn@xanga - Agreed. I'll stick to only Xangans from now on LoL
@supaflychikn@xanga - Hah. Again, spot-on.
But B is either really dumb or really devious. And the boyfriend is kind of to blame for the whole thing, for agreeing to cheat on A. No matter how much of a bitch B is, she couldn't have slept with A's boyfriend if he didn't agree to it.
Also, why are there 14-year-old girls in this post's picture? The one in the scarf & black shirt is especially creepy.
@tavatava@xanga - Hahha I thought it was just me! They look super creepy! They're gonna rip his chest open and eat his heart! LoL
Ha Ha I Know ppl who wouldn't stop bragging about this guy so some of my friends decided to see what the hype was about. So I could see that reasoning, I'd still be pissed if I were the gf of the boy.
I wouldn't share details like that with girlfriends, unless it's a guy that i'm casually dating and have no intentions of becoming serious with. Sharing about some things is OK, but you just can't cross lines. Her logic though, is wayy flawed. If a girlfriend of mine was being as explicit as your friend, I wouldn't go trying to sleep with HER man. FRIENDS don't do that to FRIENDS!
First off, Friend B is completely stupid for using that excuse and the SO should be dump. I do not talk about my sex life like that. I put in a few details, but like a few people have already said, there are jealous bitches trying to get with my lover.
Don't get new friends. You have your own, personal soap opera!!
In the words of my fb friends "DISLIKE"
both friend B and even asking such a question, ha ha
why one shouldn't brag too much and why one should know better haha...
omgwut. These things actually happen? Why? I don't... even... aaaaah. *facepalm*
Other than rape, sex is a decision between two people. Not a mistake, not an accident, not some else getting you to do it. It was your choice. He chose to sleep with Friend B and Friend B chose to sleep with him. So, he cheated and should be dumped. And she should also be dumped as a friend...cause really, who wants a guy or a friend like that?
Your friend B seems crazy and your friend A needs to keep shut her private life. BF of friend A is a slut. You have 'friends' like this for a reason. If anything, Learn from their mistakes.
of course the boyfriend has blame. they both have blame. bad friend, bad boyfriend. the metaphor is horrible; if I tell you about great shoes, you're not going to come and take MY shoes to wear... you're going to buy your own.
its takes two to tango.
Occurrences such as these make me happy that I'm a very private person. That's not even a messy situation - that's just fucked up. Hahaha.