Monday, 17 May 2010
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. Before our relationship was official, he told me he had never been in love or been in a relationship. I never had a boyfriend before so I was pretty excited to meet a guy who was also waiting to find his first love.
This past weekend, I found out that he had a girlfriend for four years. They parted ways after college but remain friends. I know that he genuinely loves me but still somehow feel like I was deceived and lied to.
If he could somehow “erase” his 4-year history with someone, then what else is he hiding from me? I’ve been a nervous wreck since the discovery but haven’t brought it up because he’s going through a stressful time at work. I’m confused and honestly don’t know what to do.
Should I confront him or try to forget about this whole ordeal? Any advice?