Sunday, 16 May 2010
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Tumble in the Sheets
A lot of people don't like to say sex is a key factor in serious relationships, but I would like to think so. Now before I make myself sound like a horn dog, or like I don't know what I'm talking about in relationship, just hear me out for a second haha.
Just as human nature, humans have sex.
That's just the damn straight truth. I've heard some many sad stories about couples breaking up because the sex wasn't pleasurable. (or my friend said she broke up with her bf because his yoohoo was too small :/ yikes!)
Now I'm not saying that I agree that sex MAKES or BREAKS the relationship. I just find it to be a great plus or minus in one.It's kinda like, if the sex isn't that good, it'll put an "eh" factor in the relationship, and say," but you know what I love her so it doesn't really matter." But if the sex is really good, it'll put a "HOT DAMN" factor in the relationship, and say, "THAT'S ANOTHER REASON WHY I LOVE HER!"
I'm still rather young, but I've been in and out of my serious and non serious relationships. I still have a lot to learn, and I guess this is where I'm at in this aspect of relationships.
Haha this post isn't meant to be too serious. But give me your thoughts!
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If the sex sucks, then I just cannot deal. It is true, sex can MAKE or BREAK a relationship.
I think sex is important. It brings two people closer and helps build a stronger connection. It is really great when you're with someone whom you love PLUS you have phenomenal sex with.
If the sex is bad and does not improve I consider that to be "bad sexual chemistry" and I would not stay with that person.
I agree...sex is very important to a relationship. It's hard to be with someone who you have little or no sexual chemistry with, even if you do love them.
The only exclusion to this are emotional relationships.
An example would be: A homosexual male or female who does everything else you would in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex minus anything like kissing/dry humping/actual humping. The cuddling, sitting on each other's laps, wrestling??(I've seen it, still weird). And, of course, the possessiveness.
Hmm.. well considering that only in rare cases do intimate relationships not involve sex, I'd have to agree that it is important.
Well what you're saying is the same thing as it not being important. It's a plus, a bonus, and sometimes not having it can make a relationship difficult, but so can having it.
Really it depends on the person and depth of the relationship.
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I associate sex with love, so if the sex isn't good, then I don't think I could really be with the person. But then again, I'm kind of a nympho, so it'd be like cutting off an arm to me.
sex is necessary to bring two people together, to straighten your relationship, and yes the sex does need to be rockin!
@jinx2345 - Fuck you, go away.
Sex is definitely a factor in "making or breaking" the relationship. Its something that I physically crave every single day. Obviously I wouldn't just break up with someone because they were "bad in the sack"... I'd try to talk about it, show him what I like, etc. But if he just flat out doesn't want to have sex.. Seeya! :)
It's got to be at least ok, otherwise it will be really really hard to want to stay in the relationship.
I think a better question would be how long would you be abstinent for a person you cared about?
yeah better used for the "HOT DAMN" situation haha...
sex is important to a certain extent. I have urges but I can often put sex on hold. sometimes I don't feel appreciated like sex outweighs other things important to me and would like him to show me that he loves me in ways other than sex. if there is an emotional void, then that is the main thing that makes or breaks my relationships. if he is satisfying me emotionally, then I'll likely put in extra effort to satisfy him sexually.
Haha. I find a good conversation much more appealing than sex. And it's not that I have anything against sex; it's just that if the guy doesn't have brains enough to hold a decent conversation, then to be quite honest, I won't be very inclined to have sex.
Ability to converse is make or break.
i think i've discovered it's more important than i was wanting to give it credit for. loving someone you have little sexual desire for is just not the same as loving someone you do.
Chemistry (or the lack thereof) affects evvvvvvvvverything in a relationship.
I think it's really important, but you don't want only a good sexual relationship with a person, it requires friendship first, good communication, and other personality-related compatibility. I think when you love someone (really love, not just lust for them) you have passion for one another and want each other to be happy, so obviously you should want to have sex and enjoy it. It would bother me if the person wasn't sexual and didn't ever want to have sex.
Anyways, with that said.. I sound like a nutbar to lots of people, but my SO and I had sex a lot when we started dating and then decided we would abstain from it until marriage. I think it ultimately has made our relationship amazing because we already KNOW what the sex is like and now we have worked on everything else that is important in a relationship. We've been together for 4 years and haven't had sex for 3 and it's great.
Sex is a good way to create a bond with your significant other. When I have good sex with my boyfriend, I feel as though we are breathing in each other's souls, in a kinky sort of way.
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have to admit its the backbone of a serious relationship!
you have to be somewhat attracted to the person when they are naked and not get grossed out at that extra fat you see when you normally cover up with clothes.
would totally suck if you married a guy and realized he was horrible in bed.. ouch.. there goes the rest of your sex life! :p
sex is a huge part of the relationship...once you are in a serious relationship, that other person is all you are going to get. it is the one thing that only you and that other person share on a very personal level. So it better be fucking fantastic!
I'm lost here...Are we talking about someone likes someone else coz felt attracted to and then oops, this is not what I was expecting?...
Or it's like trying sex with someone for several times just for sex and then found out it's not what we are looking for?...
well sex is pretty big because you're attracted to each other (hopefully) if you're in a relationship so it seems sex would be a natural part of that, right?