Dear _____________________,
I wanted to write to you because I haven't heard back from you in a couple of days/weeks. I had a great time on our dates and thought you felt the same way. It seemed that we had gotten along pretty well, with wonderful conversations, giddy laughter, and an overall great time. It was wonderful rapport and I had hoped to continue it. And then, it just stopped. Nothing, nada, zilch. WTF mate, where did you go?
I tried contacting you in the not-so-stalkerish way and not inundating you with messages of worry and concern since I hadn't heard from you in so many days/weeks. The first couple of days, I even excused you in the manner of "Oh, you're probably busy with work/life/other wife."
But after about four days, I simply got majorly depressed. I started blaming myself for the lack of overall communication on your part. I'd check my phone and email more than I should on any given day. That's bad. That's so going to add up on my cell phone bill.
About 6 days into it, I just broke down and thought "What's wrong with me?! Why don't you want to continue dating me? Or even talking to me for that matter??" Seriously, you disappeared off the face of the planet with no sign of communicative device in hand to signal not even a remote "Yeah, I'm just not that into you." Nothing. No reply, no "...", nothing. Not cool.
After about 8 days of complete and utter silent treatment from your side, I announced to the universe "You douchebag/bitch/other-major-inappropriate-words-and-phrases, WTH mate. Not cool, but I get it. You have no balls/boobs/other-matters-of-courage to simply say that it's over."
Well, now. What more can I say? I've done my part. I've given it my effort. And still nothing from you. It's irksome beyond belief.
Well, I hope that wherever you are, be it too busy with work or abducted by aliens, that you don't treat the next person in a similar fashion. And as much as it sucked not being called back, I did appreciate our dates. I just won't ever date you again.
Thank you and good luck.
Regards,
Bitter-but-will-get-over-it
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That's sad. =[ I've never experienced such a thing.
best to move on
Soldier through.
I've had that. But we sorta ended in a fight. So I guess I saw it coming.
The frustrating part is being left with the feeling that they don't care, and you want them to.
You want them to read this letter and feel what you feel.
And yet, "Nothing, nada, zilch."
what do you mean by "other wife"? I think he is in a relationship, possibly married, so he disappears without notice as not to cause suspicion from his gf/spouse and you might be the other woman
or he just didn't feel the same way but is too afraid to tell you so he ignores you and hopes you'll get a hint and eventually forget about him.
@P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga - maybe she was kidding? about the other wife part
@WordsandThoughts@xanga - You've been lucky.
@WordsandThoughts@xanga - aren't you fortunate
eh just gotta move on and put it behind you.
@Trigger821@xanga - or maybe her suspicions are catching onto something.
if he does contact her again, I bet he'll say that he lost his phone and lost her number so he couldn't call her back, but he was really busy dating other women and couldn't decide on who to choose because they are all great.
What an ass. If he can't even bother to give an explanation, then he's not worth your time.
Who cares!!! My boyfriend thinks the same with me. He- is eight years older than me, lol. We met online at an age gap dating site [A_g_e_m_i_n_g_l_e @ c.//o.//m]---a nice and free place for Younger- Women and Older Men, or Older Women and Younger Men, to interact with each other. Maybe you wanna check out or- tell your friends
Im sorry what a rude person
I was in a similar situation, so I called him out on it.
I asked him, what the hell does he want because he keeps saying one thing but then doing another.
I disliked the fact he was always telling me that he still wants to hang out with me, but has yet to make the effort to do so. I haven't seen him in practically a solid month.
The sad fact is, he lives right around the fricken corner from me (2 effing seconds away).
Even after I called him out on it, (and he apologized) I STILL haven't seen him though he still says he wants to hang out. I'm just ignoring him right now.
He's lucky I'm not as stalkerish as some people say because if I was like that, you bet I would have gone over to his effing house to see what he was doing during the day.
Have you tried calling him?
There is a reason you didn't get a call back - just like there was a reason that job interview didn't hire you ... someone better probably.
I've decided that a lot of the time, people failed at communication. I kid you not -- all of my dude friends fail in this department. They forget to call, they don't know what to say, they don't HAVE anything to say, they think you're busy, etc. etc. It could be plethora of other sometimes more innocent things than you think.
So give 'im a call! Ask what's up, and only bitch about it if you discover something far worse.
I can relate
@count_revan - In this regard, yes. However, I have experienced my fair share of heartbreak in different forms.
@mistermino@xanga - I've been fucked by love in other ways. Brush ya shoulders off. Live is short.
Been there, done that. It's best to just put your shoulders back, hold your head high and move on. There's always someone better out there.
New Friend Request by Gym Class Heroes
not quite the same situation but its of the spirit.
sorry dear
@WordsandThoughts@xanga - didn't say it to be mean. hence the smiley. I've been fucked over quite a bit, the no call back is just an annoyance really, like why does a girl give me her # if she never intended to call me back lol, just confusing. No matter you're still fortunate you've never dealt with the no call back.
Well, then again, I never hand out my phone number. I'm too cynical of everyone. ;] No offense taken.
bugger. that sucks. :(