Wednesday, 12 May 2010

• My Hun Whom I Once Abhorred

  
  

  I'm in a relationship with a guy, whom I used to abhor back then. He loved to tease me, which I abhorred it so much. Such an obnoxious guy. It wasn't that I was too shy to look straight at him in the eyes or to even have a small conversation with him, it was all hatred. I do respect him, of course. He's my friend's brother.

  A year later, after a simple conversation, of course, I realized that he isn't that bad at all. I never thought of being in a relationship with him nor be in a relationship with anyone. All I needed was time to keep myself together again, but he was patient and he didn't give up.

  For the first time ever, I received flowers from a guy on a non-occasion day. Tulips. I'm not really into flowers, but at that time, it felt somehow special.

  For the first time ever, a guy actually took the chance of coming to my place in the city on a rainy day just to bring me the lemons I wanted. Not expecting anything from him, he also brought me some tangerines because I was getting a bit sick.

  One time, I told him that I really like seafood especially crabs. Before I went back to the city for school, he bought me cooked crabs and sushi. It was so... YUMMY-LICIOUS!

  Bit by bit, I came to adore his imperfection especially his height [lol] and the fact that he's Filipino. I was against to date to any Filipino guys due to their corniness, stereotypically speaking. He can be some times corny, but at the right timing.

  On the day of March 5, 2010, I decided to give this relationship a shot. And since then, I started to learn, to observe, and to notice things from him... One is, I think I'm taller.

  He makes me smile and laugh. I just can't stay mad at him. My anger may last at least an hour...

  We played a game through webcam: Don't Smile Nor Laugh and the consequence...? Well, I live in a townhouse with 3 roomies in my room... I had to do 10 push-ups in front of'em, no matter what, and it was past midnight.

  For our one month, he actually came to the city just to spend some time with me after his classes. He gave me a bracelet with my nickname on it. I gave him a photo key chain of us together and moi. He carries it around with his wallet chain. Last week, I lost the bracelet somewhere at my home... I didn't crazily panicked since I knew it was somewhere lying around near the kitchen... But eh, don't worry, I found it.

  I know I shouldn't judge right away... Especially after two months of being together. But it feels so right that he may be my special someone.

  Is your partner someone you didn't like before? Did you date someone who you once had such hatred feelings toward them?

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