Sunday, 09 May 2010
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A Letter to My Next Boyfriend
Dear Next Boyfriend,
I don't know how we'll meet, I don't know how long we'll be together, or how we'll break up. I just want you to know a few things about me.
I have low self-esteem. I may look confident and I know what I want and doing on the outside, but on the inside I'm screaming with fear and worry. Go ahead and try to calm my fears, but I'll still have the feeling that I'll mess up or something will go wrong. I'll know you tried and give you props for that. And yes, I will like it when you calm me down...
I'm a simple/plain girl. You don't have to take me to the movies or a fancy restaurant everyday or every time we go out. I'm also not a big dozen of roses fan or a girl who wants a diamond ring when a guys proposes to her. I'm not even a girl who expects you to propose to her 6 months after dating or such. Hell, V-day is just another day, that unfortunately doesn't give me a day off from class. And you don't even have to give me anything for that day. You don't have to call me everyday or even talk to me 24/7, but I do need a text here and there. I'd appreciate you calling me before you go to bed or even texting me before you fall asleep, because I do want to know how you're day went and what's on your mind. If you're busy, I'd appreciate you telling me that you're busy with blah blah and blah or I'll be insecure and assume that you're cheating on me or something else. And you don't have to worry about me thinking that our relationship will last for ever and ever and ever, etc. because I know things can change, either for the best or the worst. But just so you know, if we don't work out, you'll still be in my memory.
Even though I am a simple/plain girl, I do like cheesy stuff. For example, if I'm cold I would indeed like your jacket or hoodie. I do assure you, you will see that jacket or hoodie, but later on...Even though it's kinda gross, I also wouldn't mind wearing your hat(SF Giants hats only please).The hat you might not see for a while..sorry. I also wouldn't mind you coming from behind and hugging my waist or even kissing me on the forehead. That gives you brownie points. I would really love it when you try to calm me down when I'm PMSing or just plain pissed or cheer me up when I'm feeling down; heck, if I'm better, you might get some action, hehe. Like any other girl, I would want to be loved and protected by you. I don't want you to be possessive, overprotective, or overly jealous, but it won't hurt if you're a bit of each. And yes, this is cheesy, but I do want to be in your arms.
As much as I want to be in your arms, I would definitely like to spend time with my friends. You can have your boys' night out or in, and I can have my girls' night out. Just as long as you don't cancel any plans with me.
I don't know when we'll meet or when we'll be dating, but for whoever you are you now know a bit about me. Treat me right.
Sincerely,
A.R.
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Comments (41)
<3 girl, i hear you on all of that
I think the last part is the most important of all "treat me right". The cry many of us single women have. I wish you luck!
if I had all this info, sounds like a good girlfriend to me with the instructions laid out and all haha...
made me smile.
:)
I love it and totally agree
we are on the exact same page. great post girly :]
This is cute. :)
@songtomyself@xanga - @The_Life_Of_A_Poet2@xanga - Thanks ladies! It is very important that a guy treats a girl right! I haven't been treated right or the way I wanted to by any of my boyfriends, so hopefully, I'll be smart enough to choose the one who does treat me right.
@Cliffycliffz@xanga - Haha. Thanks! Won't it be too demanding though for most guys? I know for my last ex he would think this is "controlling" him.
@lifeafteryou_quotes@xanga - Glad I made you smile!
@darkangel6541@xanga - @Ohhh__myxx@xanga - @pure_dasani@xanga - Thank you for liking!
THANKS EVERYONE FOR READING AND COMMENTING! This is my first time ever being featured!
some guy will be very lucky to be with you.
@summerdreams505Aa@xanga - congrats for being featured. if he thinks that's demanding or controlling, he doesn't know anything then...
@buddy71@xanga - Thank you! But somehow lately I had difficulty in the boyfriend department....
@Cliffycliffz@xanga - Thanks! I guess so! He isn't much of a relationship person. I suppose he wanted me just to make out or something...
Good post! A letter to my future boyfriend (if I didn't already have the perfect one) would be like, "Dear future boyfriend, You shall be my slave. Muahahahaha!"
@summerdreams505Aa@xanga - all of those things are not off the map sort of things. they should be expected as they show respect. but with each relationship you learn a little more to apply to the next one. it would not be out of line to talk about these things as you are "dating" or whatever.
i understand about the diffaculties...having the same with the women. lol
@HollowTendencies@xanga - Muhahaha! Lol!
@buddy71@xanga - I suppose it is expected. I just barely saw most of those things in my relationships...especially, the last one and a half( I almost had a boyfriend, but he became crazy)
Wow, I have written TWO entries in my blog lately to "the one who comes next"...great minds think alike!
@summerdreams505Aa@xanga - well i have a couple of crazy exgf's. lolbut your expectations are not out of bounds and should be what a man should do in a relationship. dont give up. he will show up when you least expect it.
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@wonderchica22@xanga - Wow! Yea! Great minds think alike =)
@buddy71@xanga - OH my. Crazy exs... frightening. Yea, one of my relationships was the least expected...
How sweet. I love your honesty in this.
@everlastte@xanga - Honesty is important when posting a post about oneself. =) Thanks!
@summerdreams505Aa@xanga - oh she was ok as long as she kept on her meds. lol
This is actually very sweet. Some guy is gonna be lucky.
@buddy71@xanga - Wow!
@dipshit@xanga - Awww...thanks =)!
wow this is to me (a guy) plain honesty and something that if i read before dating you,would make me the best man for you .........and thanks for teaching a whole lot of us something new we never knew about ladies....and i wish you all luck and blessings with your next one..